Ihave some neighbours who live inmy building who have a little girl that I like alot. She is almost 2 years old. I took her out to the local mall on Halloween to enjoy "trick or treating". We did that and then I took her to hairdresser for a trim of her hair. The parents are "angry that I cut the child's hair". I called the Father yesterday to speak with him and tell him that it was not intended to harm the child. He said he was "angry". Tonight he came to my door with the child. I did not answer. He called me on the cellphone and told me he was here to show me the "blothched haircut and what I had done". I knew he was looking for a fight so I told him to "count me out as a friend". He replied by saying" I will do that right now and I don't need you". I feel bad but don't know what else would have work given that he is looking for some kind of a fight. I need some advice on what to do to solve this situation in the near future.
2006-11-02 17:28:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Give it a little time and see if people cool down. It will only hurt the daughter because she won't understand why you're suddenly gone from her life.
You should apologize for altering their daughter's appearance. You may think the hair cut was cute and it might well be, but only her parents had the right to get her hair cut. Maybe they wanted to let it grow or had other plans for her hair. Maybe you could buy a gift certificate to the salon for them to "get it fixed" to their liking. If you ever want to do something like that in the future, you need to get permission from the parents first. Most places won't even let kids get their hair cut by themselves until they're a certain age.
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2016-12-05 12:00:44 · answer #2 · answered by vaibahv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you should of NEVER gotten the girl's hair cut with out her parents' permission...that is just not acceptable. That is a parents' decision, and I do believe you were out of line. Of course they are angry at you, and you acted like you were guilty of something when you did not open the door. You should of taken responsibility for your actions and apologized to the father. I doubt they will let you take their daughter out again, but you can make amends by saying you're sorry, and be done with it. Hair will grow back, but hurt feelings last longer.
2006-11-02 17:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the damage is already done. Personally it was not your place to get the childs hair trimmed...but it sounds like your neighbor could have handled the situation better as well...its not like the childs hair wont grow back. Sounds like your neighbor is just being stubborn about who is right, and who is wrong, and now that you now what a hot head your neighbor is, and how little it takes to upset them....I suggest you just stay clear of one another, and just forget about it.
2006-11-02 17:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by John P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to have to play "DEVIL'S ADVOCATE" taking the child to the mall for Halloween is one thing.......as nice as you probably are, as good as your intentions were, you over stepped your bounds by taking the child to get her hair cut. That's more than likely the parents point of view, as to you, why would you put yourself in the cross hairs like that. Didn't you think for a minute that you might call them, ask their permission. You made this bed girl........might as well get comfortable........LATER
2006-11-02 17:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by veteranpainter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give them some time,her hair will grow back and all will be fine,next time be sure to ask before you do anything like that
2006-11-02 17:57:36 · answer #6 · answered by krusty_blue_spaz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing just give a break and better avoid that kid too as they are not good enough to have your friendship
2006-11-02 17:44:17 · answer #7 · answered by bobby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋