For the very first year i took care not to get preg. once or twice in a year i used condoms, in the second year i got preg. just after one or two times sex. My Hubby was always not interested in sex, I was 25 when got married and in the first 2 years i didnt notice, But after wards i went for my check ups almost all check ups and each and every thing was clear, he had 2 % fast farwarding sperms and dr. said i connot become a mother 9 becaze of 2% fast forwarding sperms) 98% are dead or slow but afer words i concieved and ended up in misscarage, Now I m 32, i can see that harly we had sex once or twice ina month and sometimes after 4 to 5 months that made me fusturated altogether, but still he is nt into. Does this happen in men that they are least bothered in sex. In last 1 1/2 years we had sex not more thn 4 times. Pls. serious anwer. Dont be rude....
2006-11-02 16:47:53 · 3 answers · asked by noreen jhn 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
This does not sound normal. I would advice you to first talk to your husband then maybe seek a relationship therapist. If you are not getting what you want out of the relationship sexually you need to approach it directly with you husband so you all can try to solve the problem to have a closer relationship. Maybe there is a hidden problem he has or maybe he is just not that interested in you as a sexual partner which would be a big issue if you hope to maintain a married relationship. Plus i would seek help from a obgyn if you are 32 and still experiencing trouble conceiving. The maximum time you should wait before considering a fertility specialist is 2 yrs. Just try to ask your man for some answers that any woman would want. The feeling that he doesnt desire you cant make you feel that great and when someone hurts you in a relationship you need to address it to meet your own needs. So just remember its not all about how he wants things to work. Its a two way commitment. Good luck
2006-11-02 17:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by pinkjet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to divorce him, NOT BEING RUDE JUST NOT GOING TO SUGAR COAT IT, if you two been together for a year and a half and only had sex 4x then you need to wake up and smell the coffee
P.S.............either he's been sleeping around or just not interested in women!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-03 09:42:32 · answer #2 · answered by SWEETNISSS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure, but i dont think that its normal for a mans sex drive to be so low.
2006-11-02 16:50:42 · answer #3 · answered by ang. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋