2006-11-02 16:00:00 · 13 answers · asked by Morgan_ Kay _Taylor 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i had a aboriton ,,,,,,,4 years ago
2006-11-02 16:07:13 · answer #1 · answered by amberharris20022000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find your question a bit confusing. Are you looking for someone who has given a baby up for adoption who is now against adoption? Or are you looking for 2 groups of people: Those who have given up a baby and those who are against adoption?
ANyhow I think adoption is great most of the time. You get a family who really wants a baby. The reluctant mother doesn't have to abort. This does not mean there the birth mother does not feel bad about it. Just that they can recognize what is better.
2006-11-03 00:04:53 · answer #2 · answered by hawkthree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my first son at 18 and 16 months after he was born I had my second son. For me personally adoption was never an option. Maybe that was selfish of me at the time but I vowed to give my kids the best life I could. At this point in my life I would say I have done a great job. For someone to be so UN-selfish , knowing that they could give their baby a better life by adoption, they have my up-most respect, in no way could that decision be an easy one. I had my tubes tied 4 years ago, with my boys now being 10 and 11, I dont really have the desire to start over again, but I get that baby urge every now and then. I hope some day when I win that darn powerball , I think I would like to adopt. My boys bug me all the time to have a baby so they can have a baby brother, wouldn't they love it if I could and it turned out to be a girl. Ha good luck if your asking because you are torn in what to do.
2006-11-03 00:10:52 · answer #3 · answered by baddgirl28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally have not given my children up for adoption, but i do have a friend who is pregnant and plans to give this child a better life than she can give. She can give it lots of love and care, but would never be able to give it the other things a child need to in the long run have a happy and prosperous life. I would have to say if you strongly feel you can't give to child a life you would want for it, then you probaly won't because your heart and head would never let you if you feel that way. hope you do what is best for the child not what is best for you.... you did this not the child.
2006-11-03 00:23:52 · answer #4 · answered by angela s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not keeping the child I'm pregnant with now. It was a hard decision, but its better for all parties involved. I have hand selected the family, they are great people, we'll keep in touch. They are helping to support me during the pregnancy. Its a choice I know I can live with, I am choosing love, and I am very proud I can make the best of a 'not-so-great' situation. This will hurt like hell, but when I look back, I'm sure I will consider it to be one of the most selfless, and best decisions I have ever made. Choose Life!!!
2006-11-03 02:15:56 · answer #5 · answered by Baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive never giving a baby away but i have friends who have been adopted and i think its great to give a child a chance he may of never had if some loving family didnt adopt them there alot of people who cant have children of there own who make great parent for some child who has no one
2006-11-03 00:07:28 · answer #6 · answered by icecoldpolar7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think adoption is an extreamly responsible thing to do. You not only get a second chance to finish growing up you also give you child what you can't give him. A good family with a good chance of living the childhood you may not have had. It is a wonderfully selfless act.
2006-11-03 00:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not against adoption but, I could never make that choice myself. I chose abortion when I was pregnant and don't regret it. I think any choice that is made during pregnancy is very personal and should be left up to the woman who is pregnant.
2006-11-03 02:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't,, but I'm pro choice also,, but I don't think Abortion is ans answer to an unwanted pregnancy,, Giving the gift of a child to a childless couple is the greatest gift you could give if your not capable of caring yourself,, try open adoption!! Where you have contact!!
2006-11-03 00:04:10 · answer #9 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adoption parents are the only parents that bring kids up the right way.
2006-11-03 00:36:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am against children not being raised correctly so I guess I massively agree with adoption.
2006-11-03 00:02:18 · answer #11 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋