would you rather that your partner become furious for a few hours....or irritable for a few days?............why?
2006-11-02 15:14:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Your last two questions have focused on the idea of offending your partner, what is proper relationship ettiquette and what is acceptable? What have you done?
If my partner became furious with me, it is not my place to judge, manage or invalidate his emotional response. Not in my power to control his feelings. I would simply open the lines of communication to get to the source of his frustration and work through how, and to what degree, my behaviour prompted his frustration.
2006-11-02 15:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer my partner openly express however she feels, blow some steam, let me blow some steam if need be, then both of us communicate. Choking on anger and hurt doesn't doing anyone much good. Lol, tho, if furious means raging, then that's a different issue... as in unless it's due to a rare and incredibly aggregious thing, get help dealing with anger or forget the relationship.
2006-11-02 23:37:30 · answer #2 · answered by Alex62 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
furious for a few hours. i hate irritable people. they make me irritable, so if she were irritable, id get pissed off, blow up at her, and then we'd get into another argument. shed never stop being irritable, and neither would i.
2006-11-02 23:38:40 · answer #3 · answered by need 2 get a grip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get it out and over with. I'm a Gemini, we get instantly furious have our say and it's over. i can't sustain anger for more than a few hours.
2006-11-03 02:00:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Furious for a few hours....so we can have make up sex
2006-11-02 23:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by JR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
furious for a few hours ... i dont like heat situation
2006-11-02 23:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by classy naima 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Irritable....I can handle that better than furious.
2006-11-02 23:16:30 · answer #7 · answered by Curious George 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Irritable for about 5 minutes. Then I just tell her to go smoke some more pot and everything is o.k.!
2006-11-02 23:26:36 · answer #8 · answered by Namaste 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the problem. The act was unintentional, why put on a display at all. Is this the right person for you.?
2006-11-02 23:17:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well depending on the furiousity...I'd rather get it over with and out in the open asap.
2006-11-02 23:16:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋