If you saw a guy just sitting there all by himself in a hallway while everyone else was chatting with their friends, would you judge him? If so, would you think he's a loser?
2006-11-02 15:09:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you saw a guy just sitting there all by himself everyday in a hallway while everyone else was chatting with their friends, would you judge him? If so, would you think he's a loser?
2006-11-02 15:16:39 · update #1
I wouldn't judge him or think he's a loser.
2006-11-02 15:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would not think he is a loser. Nor would judge him. He's just a guy sitting by himself in a hallway. He could be waiting for friends to get out of class, or perhaps he is listening to his Ipod to relax after a tough class, maybe he's working on homework and you just didn't see it. Could it be that his girlfriend just dumped him and his heart is breaking?
He's just a guy, sitting in a hallway, by himself. It doesn't mean anything.
2006-11-02 23:22:31 · answer #2 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be shy or needed to be alone to think on something or waiting for someone or just resting.
Why would anyone think he's a loser? It's not nice to judge him like that.
2006-11-03 00:51:34 · answer #3 · answered by axix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, why would he be a loser? I would think he might be smarter than everyone else and has nothing to say to the others.
2006-11-02 23:11:39 · answer #4 · answered by Marti M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judge is a pretty strong word dun you think?
Who do you suppose you are to be passing judgement on people?
Like him or dislike him, he's just someone who is alone at that point in time. Try to see past dat.
2006-11-03 01:33:59 · answer #5 · answered by Hang Tough 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i would judge him. Maybe not a loser but a loner.
2006-11-02 23:17:08 · answer #6 · answered by Mariah Baybee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would go over and strike up a conversation. Kids can be very cruel. You never know who that person you are ignoring can turn out to be. Bill Gates was not popular in HS. Neither was Nicole Kidman. Be kind to everyone. You will never regret it.
2006-11-02 23:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i would not judge him and shame on any one who does
no someone sitting alone should not be categorized as a looser i was a loner who just took some time to be comfortable in my own skin now i can walk up to any one and start talking however people don't always respond kindly to this but i see this as their problem not Mine
2006-11-02 23:12:52 · answer #8 · answered by dancfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not think he is a loser at all. Some of the coolest people I've ever known were "loners." I wouldn't think anything of it.
2006-11-02 23:11:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO I WOULD NEVER JUDGE. I ONE WHO LIKES EVERYONE FOR WHO THEY ARE UNTIL THEY DIRECTLY HURT ME. THERE ARE SO MANY REASON WHY HE MAY BE SITTIG ALONE.. WAITING FOR SOMEONE PERHAPS, MAYBE HE WANTED SOME PRIVATE TIME, OR MAYBE HIS SAD. EITHER WAY I WOULD WALK UP AND STRIKE A CONVO WITH HIM. IT DOESNT MATTER IF EVERYONE THINKS HIS A LOSER ITS YOUR OPINION YOU SHOULD LISTEN TOO...
2006-11-02 23:13:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋