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2006-11-02 15:00:46 · 39 answers · asked by rooshi g 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

39 answers

A real body massage that doesn;t end in sex

2006-11-02 15:02:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

Maybe the question you should be asking is when and how often do you do nice things for your wife? Remember when the two of you were dating and all of the things that you did to impress her for example, maybe flowers, a romantic dinner for two by candle light or what ever it was that you did. I know it is a hard to keep the love alive in a relationship. Think of it like this, our hearts are like a gas tank on a car, if the tank is full of gas then everything is great and you can keep going, but as we use the gas up the tank becomes empty and we run out of gas or have to fill it up again to keep it running. Keeping this in mind, when you were dating you did things for your wife that filled up her heart(gas tank) and then as time went on somehow some love (gas tank) was used. Now you need to fill up her heart again. I got this from a book and the name of it is The five different love languages. You might think about reading it. It was a great help for me.

2006-11-02 15:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by Marie 2 · 0 0

what'd you do wrong this time?
you could do:
dishes
laundry
kids
bills
cook
clean house
take out trash
all the usual honey do's without having to be asked twice
leave little love notes for her to find every morning after you leave for work... just to say good morning and telling her to have a wondrful day... something that will bring a smile to her face and let her know that you care and are thinking about her...
you could also leave little love quotes and pieces of her favorite songs, or songs that remind you of her...
set up a little treasure hunt of notes that lead into a romantic night....
give her a nice massage
run a bubble bath, with nice relaxing music and candles and then take the kids away for like an hour or so... just so she can be completely alone and let her relax...
when she looks completely exhausted, completely stressed and you know that she's about to drop and just give out... take hold of her and look deep into her eyes and give her the best kiss she's ever had, and tell her how much you love and appreciate everything she does for you...
i could go on and on... the possibilites are endless...but basically be creative, only you know your wife and what she likes... i hope i helped! good luck!

2006-11-02 15:06:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

What is the problem?
Or is this just a general query for gift ideas?

One of the best things you can do is to discover her love language and to educate her in yours. Try reading The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. Read it with her. Let her know that you love her so much you want to make sure you both have the tools to make it through anything with her.

As far as gift ideas - I love getting gift certificates to the day spa or for a professional massage. A spa manicure/pedicure combo is great and makes most women feel very sexy.

2006-11-02 15:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by greyrider 4 · 0 0

Unload the dishwasher and then load the dirty dishes on your day off while she sleeps in. Fold the laundry with her for good quality time instead of sitting there doing nothing while she does it all.
Surprise her with breakfast in bed!
I did that for my wife and she was so happy with me. It felt good to give her that kind of break from the same ol mudane sh*t she has to do on a constant basis. It's hard for her to get a job where we are at, and she feels like she's going insaine from being a "maide" per say, and being surrounded by the same walls everyday, just to waite for me to come home from work, so we can be together. She has given up so much to be with me, it is the least I can do for her.
The next thing we have planned is making a baby when I get back from my deployment.
Or get a tattoo of her name somewhere. Cara has my name in a hart that is the body of a butterfly right on her tailbone (the wings go up the small of her back and somewhat on her *ss cheeks, It's sexier than it sounds, trust me. It's a total turn on and there's nothing more masculating than seeing your name on your wife's "*ss". She surprised me with it when I come home from training for the ARMY.

2006-11-02 15:23:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Don't buy her jewlry or anything like that. Bring home some flowers or a card and cook dinner for her. Even if you burn it black i'm sure she will appreciate it. Or give her the day off. You know, do the laundry, mop the floor, take care of the kids (assuming you have kids). But the easiest thing you can do everyday is give her a big hug. I think one big hug is better than 100 "i love you"s.

2006-11-02 15:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by sixstring 1 · 0 0

Cook her a romantic meal, send her flowers, take the kids off her hands for the afternoon, buy her a box of her favourite candy, clean the toilet...lol all these things are romantic and say "I love you" to a wife! Good luck!

2006-11-02 15:03:36 · answer #7 · answered by lookn2cjc 6 · 1 0

Well there is a lot of good suggestions here for you. Remember...its not always the BIG things that you do...but more the little things everyday that show her how much you care and appreciated her. not buying stuff...although I am sure she would like that too lol...things like helping with the kids, doing dishes, giving her a hug...just because, giving her a day to herself to do what ever she wants.
Like someone else said...make her a nice dinner and just let her relax, ask her....and LISTEN when she is talking lol...how her day was, just talk to her. Let her know how special she is to you and that you are SO happy that she married you and you would be lost without her.

2006-11-02 15:28:32 · answer #8 · answered by oldman 4 · 1 0

Do all of her household chores like cooking, sweeping, etc. every single weekend, so she could put her foot up, read her favourite magazine while drinking a cup of tea that you made for her and using the TV remote to flip through and watch whatever girlie shows she feels like watching...and no you cannot touch the remote.

2006-11-02 15:06:55 · answer #9 · answered by Optimistic 6 · 0 0

i am not sure what exactly the situation is, but i think you need to let her know that when you first met her, you knew she was the only one you could ever see in your life. let her know that every day you see what she does for you and it makes you feel so loved knowing that you have her to take care of you. make her know how devoted you are to her and how she is the only person that you could ever give your heart so wholely to. it's so admirable that you still refer to her as your loving wife!

2006-11-02 15:04:42 · answer #10 · answered by overwhelmed85 3 · 1 0

Be true to her,support her,Make lasting love for her forever.A loving wife always expects this not materials.
I hope u too love her deeplly And really HATS OFF!! for that
choose me if u like my ans.

2006-11-02 15:18:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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