I need some answers about men help?

Question

How do you know a man really loves you? Also how do you know a man will never cheat on you? I need to know clues to look for that shows he really loves me and won't hurt me.

Answer 1

These are some of the hardest questions. To answer your first question, I would examine this--is he your best friend?

If a man loves you, then he should fit the traditional criteria of a 'best friend.' He will be there when you need him. If you lose your job or something goes wrong in your life, he'll be there to support you. He won't turn his back on you in your time of need. He will back you up if you have a problem and help you solve it. If this sounds like your man, then he probably does love you. Do you enjoy doing the small things together? Goofing around in a coffee shop or taking unplanned walks in the moonlight. Can you sit together and just hold hands? This is a great friend and the best sort of lover. The type of man who loves you.

How do you know a man will never cheat on you?

The best way I've answered this is to look at his past. If he has behaved unfaithfully with previous girlfriends, even though he loved them and was committed to them, then this is a sign.

What is his general attitude about monogamous relationships?

Does he make jokes of the ball and chain sort? Or does he say with sincerity that he doesn't like being with other women when he is committed to one. To answer this question, you have to look at his past behavior and current attitudes. Finally, and I know people always say this, but trust your instincts. There were times when I ignored important messages and my instincts told me yes when my head told me no. I wasn't listening and my instincts turned out right.

Hope this lengthy answer helps, but these are very hard questions for any man or woman in a relationship or about to be in one.

Best Wishes and Good Luck!

Answer 2

How does a man know that a women really loves him...will never cheat? You really never do know...its all about trust. If you truly love someone and feel that you can trust them with your heart...you will just know it will feel right...but that is not to say that they are all ways going to be faithful and never hurt you...its just the chance you take for being in love. You could make the decision to never take the chance...but then you would never know for sure if he or she was the one that could have made your life better...or you could take the chance and if it does not work out look back and think well at least I tried.

Answer 3

Oh girl. They will all hurt you. Not always on purpose, but they will all hurt you.
When a man really loves you, he makes you feel like you are the most beautiful woman in the world. He considers you and your feelings first in all situations. He misses you when you're not around. He'd smack his own mother if she spoke against you. He'll break his back to give things he knows you desire. He only sees you. The most beautiful women in the world can be in the same room and he only notices you. That's how you know if he loves you. Men are capable of this kind of love, but you have to be careful because it is EXTREMELY rare and they can fake it for awhile to get into your pants. So be cautious and make him prove his love for you (for more than a week!!! - at least 6 months or longer) before you give yourself completely. (and even then there really are no guarentees - ever)

Answer 4

You're asking some tough questions. but, I will give you some advice my father gave me. Go out with a man for a number of years - not just months. During this time, learn what he thinks of life in general, of women, of different cultures for example. Sometimes this starts with a man who is a good friend of yours. In our society today we have such a hang up on being in love. we don't even know what we mean by that anymore. much of it is plain sexual and nothing else. You would want an overall picture of a certain view on your life together, but you also want to be able to do things alone at times. After all, you are still two different people. Give yourself plenty of time before you tie the knot. I'm glad you are asking these questions now.

Answer 5

Nobody gives off anyone particular clue each person has their own way of doing things.Most guy's show affection but it gets lost in the translation.One way to know asomebody is right for you is if you can do thing's together and one may like it alot but the other doesn't care one way or the other just cares about doing it with you.My little sis and her husband are like best friends and they don't agree on everything but when one wants to go to lets say the races the other goes just to spend time with the other for the simple reason to show intrest in their spouse,they have done thing's this way since they met and they are one of the happiest couples I know.

Answer 6

you know a person loves you by the actions they show...anyone can say it but if its real, you will feel it..people show their love in different ways but when the feeling go from "i like you" to "i love you" you will no the difference. on the other hand, there are no signs or clues to look for to know for certain if a person will hurt or not. you just have to "put yourself out there" like everyone does.unfortunately, you will have to risk yourself & your heart & to trust that they wont hurt you. thats all a part of this thing called love..although it can feel so good...it also can hurt so bad. this is why the line between love & hate is so thin!!!

Answer 7

first of all most good relationships are based on trust so if you trust him then abviously he has done something right if you dont , you have answered your own queastion. Even the biggest cheat can make you believe him if he tries, so i don't think there are any real clues, however ask the girls he had before you how they knew he was cheating on them then follow thier advise. If you are the first he probably doesn't know how to cheat. as for LOVE>>>whats that?

Answer 8

im a man and i have the same questions about women. im involved with a woman for 10 months and in the beginning the emotional side of the relationship was great, the sex was awesome and we seemed to have something special. then i said i love u and for her it meant that the sex should stop and we should concentrate on the emotional side. and women wonder why men have a hard time saying i love u. so i now feel that i can't trust a woman and im about 2 the point to live the rest of my life single

Answer 9

men are funny, lovable and crazy to understand. to tell u the truth, u will never know if a man will cheat on u or not. you just have to be the best women u can be and pray that he will see what lies within you.

now for clues: converstaion( you talk to each other, he tells u how he feels, you don't have to pull it out of him)
he likes hanging out with u, just being under u ( not always with his friends)
he includes u with his family
it's not all about SEX (that's a big one)
u have a good time without having sex

Answer 10

There are no guarantees on this one sweetie. A lot of it has to be on faith and gut instinct. And even if he IS faithful today and plans on STAYING faithful you're never guaranteed that he will be able to stay the course. It helps to find a man who is committed to God first. They generally tend to be more honest, trustworthy and loyal. Not saying they are perfect. But at least they know they have to answer to a higher power for their actions. It would be wise to look at his past relationships too. How did he treat others? How does he treat his mother? Is he disrespectful to women? There are a lot of indicators you just have to look for them. Hope this helps a little!

God bless you!