me and my lady have been together for 10 years. we have done it everyway under the sun. we might have invented new positions. but im NOT looking for position advice, i want foreplay advice. what are some tips to set the mood and make the kitty purr before "moving in for the kill"? i need stuff that doesnt require special equipment or costumes. and nothing that will humiliate here or make her uncomfortable. i want like 30 minutes of foreplay since the actual loving will only be about 5 minutes!
2006-11-02 13:54:00 · 9 answers · asked by southca49er 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
whats wrong with 5 mins? lol isnt that a long time these days? no really , my personal feeling is that after like 45mins of warmup the actual "drive" doesnt need to be a marathon. just ask the ladies.
2006-11-02 14:51:46 · update #1
Sounds like your kitty might be upset because she only gets actual loving for 5 minutes...try starting with kissing, touching, oral sex, then have ACTUAL sex with her and then stop and go back to oral sex again...mix it up that way. Also, start outside of the bedroom--foreplay for a woman lasts ALL DAY LONG. Treat her nicely, tell her she's beautiful, and do things that SHE wants to do all day, and I garuntee she will be in a better mood for sex later.
2006-11-02 14:51:55 · answer #1 · answered by missapparition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best forplay starts as soon as you wake up, if you have kids help get them off to school, call her during the day just to tell her you were thinking of her, and how beautiful she is (no sex talk, just compliments) then after the day help with dinner, clean something for her, make her life easier in some way, do some laundry, vaccuum, help her relax and unwind, tell her she amazes you with her strength and beauty, then kiss her neck, look in her eyes, and tell her just how much you need her and want her and crave her, listen,... turning someone on is mental and not physical, women want to feel as is they are worshiped and adored, do that and she'll be climbing on top of you!
2006-11-02 14:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
massages are always helpful. massage her from head to toe and while your doing that give her little kisses here and there. that will relax her and by you giving her the kisses will help set the mood. And if you give her full body massages it will make her feel good that you are taking that much time to focus on her and that will make her feel good and it could help turn her on too.
2006-11-02 14:07:51 · answer #3 · answered by babieshay27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start OUTSIDE of the bedroom. Walk up behind her and just give her a hug...or nibble on her neck stuff like that.
Once in the bedroom...nibble on her neck some more, her ear lobes.....SLOWLY make your way down to her breasts......then back up to her neck. Just take your time....and SLOWLY make your way down to her "kitty" as you call it. Don't just rush into it like its a all you can eat buffet...avoid the "kitty" nibble on her inner thigh...back of her legs ect. then just take your time with the "kitty" enjoy what you are doing down there....take the lips and lightly suck on them....don't just dig in.
Watch and listen to her response and pay attention...let her guide you.
Best of luck....and have fun
2006-11-02 14:04:35 · answer #4 · answered by oldman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find the G spot man.. this is always good. Watch dirty movies to gether and just go from there... 5 minutes.. I would work on that man..
2006-11-02 14:07:57 · answer #5 · answered by morfusaf 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
as quickly as I in basic terms whisper my canines's call and he or she rapidly awoke, come to me, sleep on my lap and dont decide to go away me on my own anymore.. she would have the ability to allow me carry n play along with her hand and ears as she sleeps n relaxing on my lap..
2016-10-21 04:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
feed the kitten with ham and pet it gently
2006-11-02 13:57:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feed it milk!
2006-11-02 13:59:16 · answer #8 · answered by Asia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try cat and dog.
2006-11-02 17:10:23 · answer #9 · answered by terencelitoledo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋