I am resently divorced and me and the ex are trying to work things out and see what happens there for a while we were saying i love you on a regular basis but now it just dont seem right i am so in love with her but i dont want to make her uncomfortable by saying i love you all the time is there any other way to say what you meen without saying it we have been split now for about 7 months she was dating a guy that i work with and is pregnant with his baby she thinks that will hinder our relashonship but i love her so much i am begging for help here
2006-11-02 13:40:34 · 18 answers · asked by mbdad04 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well if u love her enough to accep her with another guys baby then that should give her a hint.. sometimes u do not have to say the L word what u can do is u can tell her nice things like complements and make her fell good and special that should be a hint of the L word so sometimes is just not i love u but it also can be making feel that person special and making her feel comfortable with u..
2006-11-02 13:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you'll eventually have to say it, but I understand that you don't want to "JUST SAY IT." First, if you're friends, take him out to a place that you two are accustomed to going, just the two of you. Throughout the night, keep flirting with him, laughing with him, and just make sure he gets the clue (most of us guys usually don't get it right away, so don't be discouraged). Eventually, tell him that you asked him out tonight for a special reason. [Insert dramatic pause] Tell him how you feel. Tell him you love him and that he means a lot to you. If for some reason he's not a friend, not close, and you have no way of setting up the "I love you" try to re-think the whole "love" thing and ask yourself if that's what it truly is, or if it's just attraction. From what I gather from your question, though, it sounds like you're friends of some sort (I'm guessing after you said "three years"). If after you tell him this and he says he doesn't feel the same way you do, don't worry, it's not meant to be and that's okay. The fact is you told him, and you will no longer explode. Move on and keep this in mind for the next love of your life. And don't take love too seriously. If there's someone in your life that you say you "love" but can't SAY you "love" perhaps love isn't the answer, it's still a question. People who "love" tend to already say it or know it - it's not a matter of doing, it's a matter of showing and committing. Good luck!
2016-03-28 05:13:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speek way louder than words. Even though i can be screaming mad at my husband sometimes the way he always understands or the way he treats me on a constant basis tells me just how much he really does love me. So next time you want her to know you love her let her know by doing something you wouldn't normally do like something around the house or taking her somewhere YOU normally wouldn't go, but she would love to... Love is a lot of UNSELFISHNESS tied in with a lot of fun cause i guarantee you even if you dont' like what you guys are doin at the time you'll still have the great memory of putting that smile on her face. And when she looks at you that certain way you'll know you did a good job. Then she will slowly start to gain the confidence and reassurance that you both seem to be looking for in your relationship. :D GL with everything! Ohhh and make sure it doesn't just stop when you are stable... keep up the spontineity it's great for any kind of love.
2006-11-02 13:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by Tamara R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh God you have made such a terrible mistake in the first place leaving her. What on earth made you do that? You guys were never meant to be apart, but now she is having someone elses baby. Do you understand how messy this is going to get when he comes into the scenario, cause he loves her too now and has a certain deal of right on her because she has given him her heart too (even if you do not like to hear that). Your ex does not deserve being pushed out and pulled in like this. Give her as much time as she needs to work out her feelings and let her be the final decider of whom she wants to be with in the future. I think you undestand now that saying 'I love you' is the only thing for you to go on doing while she takes her time.
2006-11-02 13:56:37 · answer #4 · answered by S&D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her a single rose and a baby gift. The single rose will show her you love her without trying to wastefully spend a fortune on a dozen roses. The baby gift will show that you love the child that is a part of her, and you accept her as she is.
2006-11-03 07:05:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn it around and ask her as a question. Hence ( you know you love me so just admit it). Trust me this will show you right where you stand by having her come up with the awnser. Careful though she might not tell what you want to here!
2006-11-02 13:46:00 · answer #6 · answered by don b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you remember something that you did when you guys were dating that she loved? It probably be corny now but she'll smile at your effort and get your silent valentine! Good Luck!! I hope I helped a little.
2006-11-02 13:46:15 · answer #7 · answered by Muffin Cakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her presents, there are lots of subtle ways to let a girl know. Do nice things for her, help her out,
2006-11-02 13:43:17 · answer #8 · answered by Stratkat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If she's your ex, then you need to stop saying I love you in any way. It's over and you should move on.
2006-11-02 13:49:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll just say it like this. Life is too fragile. Tell them that you love them, throw your ego and pride away. Sometimes, you just never know when it's too late to let them hear it from you one last time.
2006-11-02 13:45:25 · answer #10 · answered by Hanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋