my group of friends always r getting little digs in on me beacuse im so quiet. i can go i whole day with out talking i am getting tired of them always making fun of me, im so shy that i never know what to say to people so i dont talk can any one help me with this problem im also not one to tell any one how i feel what do you guys think i should do thank u very much for any bit of help and i will take any bit of help to heart.
2006-11-02 13:35:12 · 9 answers · asked by sk8erhjk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i dont let people walk all over me but im not good with word just some more info
2006-11-02 13:47:23 · update #1
Friendship
Each of us has a hidden place
Somewhere deep within ourselves;
A place where we go to get away,
To think things through,
To be alone, to be ourselves.
This unique place, where we confront our deepest feelings,
Becomes a storehouse of all our hopes,
All our needs, all our dreams,
And even our unspoken fears.
It encompasses the essence of who we are and what we want to be.
But now and then, whether by chance or design,
Someone discovers a way into that place we thought was ours alone.
And we allow that person to see, to feel and to share
All the reason, all the uncertainty
And all the emotion we've stored up there.
That person adds new perspective to our hidden realm,
Then quietly settles down in his own corner of our special place,
Where a bit of himself will stay forever.
And we call that person a friend.
well...if ur old friends are real friends ur heart will tell u so...if u think they are not ur true friends...find someone else:)good luck!!!
2006-11-02 13:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by nabila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same way.I can be quiet all day and sometimes will be unless someone asks me a question.it's not nice for your friends to make fun of you.say,"this may sound silly,but it upsets me when you make fun of me cause I don't talk a lot.I can't help it cause I'm shy." if they start laughing at you or still make fun of you afterwards,they're not real friends.there are other people out in this world that can be nice to you and not make you feel bad for being who you are.that's just how your personality is--shy.just like some peoples' personalities are out-going.good luck!<3 *Abby loves Jay*
2006-11-02 23:09:49 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how u feel. But dont be afraid you'll say something stupid. Just speak your mind, if there good things of course. Or you can just do small talk. Like if someone comes up to you all in your face and you have nothing to say all need to do is say 'whatever' instead of saying nothing at all. Cuz saying nothing is even worse. And not to be mean and all but some ppl like to hang around ppl that make them laugh and some to talk to. No fense.
2006-11-02 21:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new group of friends which makes you comfortable talking with them and not making fun of you.
Occasionally making fun of friends is understandable and acceptable, but constantly poking fun a friend who is in nature a shy and quiet person is not acceptable.
2006-11-02 21:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by BebekMahal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a very introverted person too. I find it extremely taxing and draining to be around talkative people and to be in situations in which I am required to talk a lot.
If they make fun of you for this, I would think that they are not real friends who actually understand you.
2006-11-02 21:38:40 · answer #5 · answered by Drowningbluestars 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, its mainly ur choice. if u wanna speak up and try to get the courage then go for it. ur friends r just tryin to buck u up so u will talk, they dont mean to hurt u. if u dont wish to talk alot then i sugest finding new kids to be ur friends. i think u should come to my school lol i have a lot of quiet people here, and im realy talkative. lol quite opposites. altho on the net u seem like a pretty talkative person.
2006-11-02 21:41:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to be really shy too, but not anymore. my friends notice that i defend myself more and speak up a lot. all you do is be yourself and act tough. (i just recently socked a guy in the face 'cause he was up in mine = )
2006-11-02 21:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you tell them about your feelings? if they'll stop after you did it maybe stay with the group, but if not, i think find other useful groups.
2006-11-02 21:38:50 · answer #8 · answered by jhen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a voice that needs to be heard so please speak up for your self and tell them hey do not pick on me because i am shy just help me out and do not riddicule me
2006-11-02 21:38:05 · answer #9 · answered by kristikay1965 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋