All the guys in my town are being lame and almost none of them are gay.....how should I go about finding somebody? I REALLY want to enter a new relationship but there's nobody that I can find. Any advice would be helpful. Thanks..........
2006-11-02 12:53:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I would check the Internet for community groups or organizations within a reasonable distance near your town.
There are many great accepting gay organizations nation wide that would welcome you with open arms.
Who knows? Maybe you will find Mr. Right there.
Good Luck - Jude
2006-11-02 14:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jude M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but you justs did not give enough information.. what size town? how old are you?
If the town is small and you said no gays there.. then go to a larger town IF you are old enough... If you are in a large town.. then do not tell me that there are no gays there. Are there gay bars or bars that go either way? Can you go in to have a beer? You can try the bar scene for a while if you are old enough but be coy in a bar as there are a number of individuals who want to go to bed RIGHT NOW and that is not adviseable
2006-11-02 12:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The easiest (and, I guess, also the toughest) way would be to move to a location which has a higher gay population, such as places in which same-sex marriages are legal. That's the only solution I can think of. It would be a lot easier than trying to turn all the straight men in your town gay.
Changing careers would also be a good option for meeting new people.
2006-11-02 12:58:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Depends on where you live and your age.
Try the net like myspace (but be careful), or a gay bar, or join some sort of group (just dont pick up guys at any AA meetings, theyre tragic).
Ive met guys at Starbucks (employees and patrons), at Borders Books, at the mall, and even while filling up with gas!
It can happen almost anywhere
2006-11-02 12:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well how big is your town? Is it a little rinky dinky town? If so, maybe consider moving. If not, there ought to be places you can go, like a gay bar or club or hangout or whatever. Join pflag or get involved in your community like sports or community service. We are out there, you're just not looking in the right places.
2006-11-02 12:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by JR 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try gay bars. Just be wary because there are a lot of pick-me-up's anywhere. But it really depends on your preference.
2006-11-02 12:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by - iceman - 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go to planetout.com and find gays in your area. There's chats you can go to, IM, email and personals... My user is prrrfectmatch... tell me how you like it and if you found anyone there :)
2006-11-02 13:50:52 · answer #7 · answered by IceyFlame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you'll have to postpone all of that until you move to a bigger town.
2006-11-02 13:19:33 · answer #8 · answered by Angry Gay Man 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
plentyoffish.com....it is 100% free to email and chat so you can locate people near you
2006-11-02 21:07:30 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart
2006-11-02 14:00:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋