i support & agreed her for a long vacation PLUS will take care KIDs while she's on her holiday. Me & kids waiting her to come back from her holiday and now she's back BUT asking to break (divorce coz of guy at china) our family. She's cheated my heart and kids heart.
We're already signed and waiting to court. She's asking me to take kids at morning for her to meet and asking me to fetch them back at evening.
She's said she still LOVE her kids but still leaving them behind coz of guy at china. IS THIS CALL
Is this worth to bring my kids to their CHEATED MUM???
Is this worth to let my kids to met her by sending them to her?
Is this worth to let my kids to call her mum, again?
(she'll go china after court filed, leaving children age 5 & 2)
2006-11-02 12:37:09 · 6 answers · asked by peter71 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We're still at same country and i'll take custody to look after them as stated in divorce petition.
She's asking me to take kids to see her (visiting time) at morning and she's take care them till evening. She's request me to fetch them back at evening time and We're separated for 2 months already.
My question is:
IS IT WORTHY FOR ME to bear my own cost (petrol) to send them over to KID's cheated mum or MY cheated wife and fetch them back at evening?
(She said she got no transport)
it's should be her problems, isn't it?
2006-11-02 13:01:30 · update #1
She is too wrapped up in her sinful lust. Best to drop her and find a better mommy for the kids and a faithful wife for you.
2006-11-02 12:39:33 · answer #1 · answered by NOIZE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear about what happened. As far as the questions concerned about their kids and their mom. That's their mother, rather you and her divorce and your feelings for her are bitter (which is understandable) she is still their mother. You can't deny her parental rights and visitations unless you can prove that she is an unfit mother and that she can't take care of her children (adultery will not cut it). She is right in that she loves her kids, unfortunately she doesn't love you which is sad and she shouldn't have strayed but that is for another topic. Bottom line is: To those kids she will always be their mother. You can't really keep them from her.
2006-11-02 12:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really feel sorry for you and the kids...but you got to move on! I would not send the kids over there...you may not see them again! And she not worthy on the name 'Mother',because she left the kids to be with another man!
2006-11-02 12:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by MadDog21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel really sorry for your children. They are getting all mixed up in you guys business and have to suffer and they haven't done anything.
Those children are your flesh and blood and you must take care of them. They also will have to have some kind of relationship with their mother, even if you hate her.
You might want to talk to a counselour as soon as possible. Don't make your children pay for any mistakes you have made or she had made.
2006-11-02 12:41:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be unfair for the kids to not be able to see their mother, but she should pay for the trip (if its long or theres a flight involved) or drive one way atleast. It was obviously wrong, selfish, and irresponsible for her to leave, but just figure out what's best for your kids.
2006-11-02 12:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by Stacy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't send the kids out of the country without you. She might not return them
2006-11-02 12:39:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋