Have u ever felt like u didn't belong? like you love to hang out with your friends but most of the time it seems like there is nothing to say and u feel as if they don't care about ur issues when u try to tell them what's is going on in ur life? they just seem to not here any comment that u make...and u always listen to what they have to say? The same thing with family? uhh have any of u felt this way? I feel as if I don't have a real true friend...I mean that I have lots of them but they don't seem to really care about me and my feelings. How can I find a true friend?
2006-11-02 12:37:00 · 10 answers · asked by ♫poison ♥s will never change♫ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yeah that happens to me all the time
i talk to my "friends" but they dont seem to be a "friend"
or even family
i feel like i cant trust my friends or family
with your friends or family you feel like your not connected to them even though your talking and they are right there
they dont treat or look at you as a family
they look at you like an outsider and that sometimes makes you feel not wanted so you end up getting used to it that you really dont care. you become very numb to it.
ppl like that wont care about you or care about your issues.
i have dealt with that personally almost all the time
hey wanna be my friend ?
2006-11-02 12:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by david 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all I'm sorry that you are feeling that way..It's no fun for anyone. Yes I have had times where I felt that I did not fit in and I was lost in the background so to speak. I don't know about you but I had a problem with shyness for awhile and eventually people were so used to me being quiet that if I did speak up I wasn't heard. Perhaps it's a phase you are going through and that you are feeling self conscience or perhaps there is a self esteem issue. Not saying that there is I'm not trying to diagnose you. I just know that was part of my feeling that way too. Eventually it will pass, you won't care what people think and you will only be concerned for yourself. Look out for #one (you)!! You are the company you keep so if your friends are not making you happy or making you feel like you belong with them and fit in...maybe they are not the right friends. As for family, they will always be there for you even if you think they are not listening I'm sure they are. Hang in there, it can only get better..At least you can acknowledge the fact that this is happening and that's half the battle!! Take Care!!
2006-11-02 20:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by Cats Meow ;) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my GOD I feel that way ALL the time! I mean, I have lots of friends too but I just don't seem to be able to make these dtrong connections with em. Wow this is so weird. As for the how to find a true friend part, I really don't know but I always leave it up to God on that one.
2006-11-02 20:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by Allahu Akbar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG.. i am going through the same ordeal dred..!. Its like you want to but to me i feel like maybe im expecting to much out of them.. Im a very caring person, so its impossible for me not to care about my friends and be there for them, but as soon as i may need them, its doesnt seem like they are there equally for me as i to them. I dont kno what is the solution to this problem.. These things always happen to nice ppl.. ARG!
2006-11-02 20:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_n_mellow23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just stareted a new job and feel really left out no matter how many attempts I make. I actually cried about it today. I feel your sadness. I'll cry for you too. Plus I have PMS, so I could cry a river. A true friend lies within yourself.
2006-11-02 20:39:21 · answer #5 · answered by Christine B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and it's a sign of depression. You may want to consider talking with your doctor. Feel Better Soon! HUGS
2006-11-02 20:38:57 · answer #6 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have a bit of depression. This can make you feel like the way you do.
2006-11-02 20:41:07 · answer #7 · answered by Dewy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i was in high school I felt this way ALL THE TIME!! I have been out of high school for 14 years and let me tell you this, you will grow out of this. You will find true friends, it just comes with maturity and time. TRUST ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SPEAKING FROM EXPERIENCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-02 20:53:54 · answer #8 · answered by turnertot1992 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need a boy friend to talk to.
2006-11-02 20:39:28 · answer #9 · answered by Casper77mc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let the friend find u
2006-11-02 20:40:38 · answer #10 · answered by cutiexpie101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋