she had me log into her acct to make some adjustments for her (not very myspace litterate), and she asked me to look at an e-mail from someone she grew up with (she wanted some advice on friend drama). when i was in there i noticed she's exchanging VERY raunchy e-mails with men (she is married). She is very young, and does not know the dangerous game she is playing! She is teasing these men, thinking they can't find her, but they can! i want to say something to her, but i do not want her to know that i've been keeping an eye on these e-mails. If she were to find out she would change her password; and this is the only way i would know who has her if/when she comes up missing (which is inevidable if she keeps playing this game). if it were you in this situation, would you say something to the acct holder about safety? or should i not say anything (she's very hard headed and stubborn), and use this in the event something does happen? please no negitive responses. thank you.
2006-11-02 12:12:11 · 7 answers · asked by User Name 5 in Computers & Internet ➔ Internet
her husband doesn't respect himself. aparently he's happy to have a wife. he leaves it as it is.
2006-11-02 12:28:39 · update #1
Are you sure they can figure out where she is? Is she giving out personal information? Is she telling them secrets about her? Planning to meet with them?
If so, you could watch shows and stuff about myspace girls going missing while shes in the room...
you could get on her myspace, go to the men who she chats with's profiles, and hit the "block me" button. they wont be able to contact her anymore.
its going to be hard to get her to stop. i dont think you should tell her you've been reading her private stuff, but maybe you could tell her you had a scary experiance from talking to a guy on myspace... pretend that somebody found your phone number and called you or something. scare her out of it i guess.
2006-11-02 12:18:24 · answer #1 · answered by emando16 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm though question, but here's what I would do. Having access to her account, switch where it says she lives, or change her name in account settings. If she notices, say you don't know what she's talking about, and if she doesn't believe you, then tell her why you changed it. Of course, It's probably much easier to change her location without her notcing, but she still might notice. Other than that, if she's married and she does change the password on you, you can always talk to her husband (although mentioning those emails is up to you...). Good luck, I hope your family member doesn't get hurt!
2006-11-02 12:20:30 · answer #2 · answered by americanmimeboy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people can't be changed, she probably wasn't ready to get married and shouldn't have made that irresponsible decision in the first place. Women can be vindictive towards each other, but if you are worried about her and can deal with her being mad at you I would suggest informing her husband. He should know, if not to protect her, to at least wake up be a man and get out of a very unhealthy relationship. Don't tell me they have children?
2006-11-02 12:21:01 · answer #3 · answered by micah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What does her husband say about this? If I were you, I'd let him in on the password. Let him figure out how to approach the situation. He'd have more of an influence than you. And then maybe you and him could team up on your sister. She'd listen if she knew you both cared.
2006-11-02 12:20:45 · answer #4 · answered by "Speedy" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should say anything. its none of your business. and sounds like shes an adult. and in the event that something did happen there are ways around a password. im sure the case could be solved without you knowing her password. stop going into her private business.
2006-11-02 12:22:34 · answer #5 · answered by whatever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of babies ought to act by skill of the regulations because of the fact many problems have hppened via breaking regulations. playstation . Medina this paper is written by skill of non-close by author so don't be so merciless. in case you need to write distant places language paper and somebody commented you like you probably did. how might you sense?
2016-11-27 00:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
(she is married) and messing about with 3 guys online then she is bean verry stupid and thinks its ok to do this she dont see what kinda danager she is infor she will not listen to you and if you get mad to her she will reset the password so your at the point of banging ur head of the wall she will not lsiten to what you have to say .b/c she is stupid she wants to play the danager game . this thing is not a game it is verry much dangerous. why you need to talk this out with all of ur family to let them know what she is upto then they will talk to her . but if she dont listen to da. family then there is not much more you can do . you can talk to her housband about it and let him deal with this
2006-11-02 12:25:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋