well i have been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend for almost 2 months or more i was suposed to get my period on the 14th of oct. but to my suprise i still havnt gotten it at all im scared to death and im not sure what to do .. i havnt really had all of the symtoms of being pregnate...i have had to pee more not a whole whole lot but more, i have felt sick sometimes like to where i FEEL like i wanna throw up but it doesnt happen much, my breasts do hurt they just started hurting a couple of days ago, i have had some pains in my stomach mot alot but some and i have been a little tired.. i havnt took a test yet im almost scared to take one me and my friend are suposed to do it together soon...i am about 3 weeks late its been like 47day since my last period
2006-11-02 11:39:51 · 12 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Sounds to me like you're pregnant. You need to test soon so you can start getting prenatal care. Good luck!
2006-11-02 11:42:45 · answer #1 · answered by mommy-to-one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely you are pregnant. That happened to me to when I was 19; we also had sex for about two months before I got pregnant. It was really scaryl. I waited a few months to tell my parents and I told me sister first and had her give my parents a letter because I knew my dad would yell at me if I just talked to them. He didn't yell at me and my parents got me to go to the doctor. My boyfriend and I decided to get married so that the baby would have both its parents. (that maybe wasn't the best decision since we aren't together now, but at the time, we did what we thought was right.)
At any rate, I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl. It wasn't easy being a young mom because I couldn't just go out with my friends anytime I felt like it, but my daughter was worth all of the sacrifices! She is 23 now, is intelligent, beautiful and responsible. She's married, works full-time (making more money than I ever have,) and she is going to college, studying to become a child advocate lawyer. She is also a great big sister to her 4 younger brothers. I couldn't be more proud of her.
So, what I am trying to say, is this: if you are pregnant, don't think of it as something horrible, but rather as an opportunity to bring a new person into the world and to raise them to be a good member of society. If you are too young to raise a child and your parents or your boyfriend's parents are either unwilling or unable to help you, put the baby up for adoption and make a couple who wants to become a family happy. You would be doing a good thing by giving your baby a chance reach their full - potential.
Good luck, and I hope you will have a child as wonderful as my daughter!
2006-11-02 19:54:38 · answer #2 · answered by runningviolin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are. get a test but you are. scared about it seems like there is a reason you don't want to be. the sooner you identify the reality of the pregnancy you can make a decision on whether or not this it the right time to have a baby. only two months tells me that this is a new relationship...and a pregnancy may not be what you want or need right now from someone you don't know well enough to have a child with. There are options: adoption, abortion, etc. Think about this long and hard because this isn't just a puppy...or a kitten. good luck.
2006-11-02 19:51:00 · answer #3 · answered by igot_terminal_uniqueness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one having unprotected sex is going to get you pregnant one way or another. You probably are if you haven't had your period and you are more than 2 weeks late. I would buy a test to make sure. I hope this is what you want, good luck
2006-11-02 19:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by sleepyincarolina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some of the symptoms you described could also be the result of a late period. Just to be sure I would get a home test though.
Good Luck
2006-11-02 19:43:14 · answer #5 · answered by ginwill1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I first found out i was pregnant for the first time I experienced that "wanting to vomit but can't" feeling, so I ate some soup to stop the pain in my stomach and made myself vomit, it actually made me feel relief, weird but it worked for me. If you are 47 days late and are having such strong symptoms, take a HPT ASAP, the are cheap, I found one at the Dollar Tree, a buck....it wont hurt to find out, but it might if you wait. Good luck, IM me if you need anything
2006-11-02 20:15:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a test it is better to know then to not know TRUST me it is a freaky thing but at least you will know. If you are there are decisions to make weather to keep it or not. The choice is yours. If you are not, remember to ALWAYS protect yourself he might not like it but you know what who cares. Then he doesn't like you as much as he says he does. Be careful out there. There are a lot of deceases out there and if you don't watch out for yourself nobody else will!!
2006-11-02 20:02:16 · answer #7 · answered by Michele C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are pregnant to me, although I am not sure why you are so scared...did you not realize that by having unprotcted sex, that what happens? Also take a test now, dont wait to take one w/ your friend it sounds like you are pretty young maybe you should talk to your mother.
2006-11-02 19:46:25 · answer #8 · answered by notAminiVANmama 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm puzzled here:
"I have been having unprotected sex for two months..."
and
"to my surprise... scared to death..."
I am trying REALLY hard not be to blunt, but was this TRULY a surprise?
What would you have done differently if you WANTED to become pregnant?
2006-11-02 19:47:25 · answer #9 · answered by Mark T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would say that you are pregnant. you need to take a test to make sure. i have never had any symptoms either. you don't have to have them. some people just don't.
2006-11-02 19:43:17 · answer #10 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋