im 12 years old. I started my period in august 2006. I never know when it comes back. All I know is that it comes in the begining on the month. But, sometimes it comes twice a month. I woried because their is a boy at school who likes me, he gives the inpression that he wants to do something nasty to me. Like for an example, today at school, as I was sitting down, he stuck a pencil by my butt and he acts like im sucking his dick. What should i do. Im too young to get pregnant. I NEED SOME ADVICE!
2006-11-02 10:25:52 · 31 answers · asked by Star 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
The easiest way to not get pregant is to not have sex. Boys will be boys. When I first started geting my period It would be very hard to tell when it was coming, it would be twice a month or sometimes once every 3 months. Not everyone has a 28 day cycle. Talk to your mom. I know it isn't easy to do. A good thing is the pill. Even if you are not sexualy active it helps to lessen pms, it regulates your cycle, and it helps lighten the flow. I don't want anyone to think I am telling you to have sex. You shouldn't at 12. so to not get pregant, don't have sex, ignore boys that are trying to pressure you. If you need someone to talk to you can email me.
2006-11-02 10:35:20 · answer #1 · answered by taffy_flinn 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, don't worry! First of all, at your age it is completely normal to have irregular periods. It's just the way your body is going to be for a while until it can figure out it's own cycle. If you get really worried then wear a pantyliner. It's not terribly uncomfortable, nobody else can see it or can tell you're wearing it, and it will give you time to get to the bathroom without staining your pants if you start your period and aren't expecting it.
As for the boy, he is being very disrespectful towards you. You deserve better! Unfortunately, boys can be immature and dumb. Look him in the eye and firmly tell him to cut it out. If he doesn't quit then tell a teacher. Seriously, he can't just treat you like that! Someone, (either you OR a teacher) needs to put a stop to his awful behavior. Let him know he's being a jerk. You won't get pregnant just from the way he's acting and it sure sounds as if you're not interested in sex with him so you have nothing to worry about!
2006-11-02 10:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by 'tisJustMe 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
First Mark you calender when it starts, it might last 21 or 28 days
when it come back down again look back at your date on your calender and count, then you will know exactly if you have your periods every 21 or 28 days.
Second of all if you want to start sexual relations , you must go to
a doctor to start you on some kind of protection, or use condoms,
I really don't recommend sex to you because you are a very young little girl, I would try to read more on this, and try to discuss this with your mother or anyone who you trust
The boy that is Disturbing you put him in his place, it you think you like him, get to know him first.
2006-11-02 10:54:35 · answer #3 · answered by curious 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Honey, I cannot believe what you wrote. You are only 12 years old? I am truly worried if this is all you guys are going to school to learn. You need to stay far far away from guys like this. They have no business acting like this around any girl. This is just nasty. You think this guy you likes you? He doesn`t like you and only wants to get in your pants, and he is a pig and a loser. Look for a nice boy who does not act like this and is interested in going to school. As for your period, are you able to talk to the school nurse or your mom? Sometimes when you first start your period, it may take a little while to get more regular. If you don`t, then you should have mom, or who you are living with, to take you to see a doctor. Be sweet and avoid this guy.
2006-11-02 10:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
1st, your cycle is regulating. Keep a check, via a calendar, when you start and stop. This will help you more accurately know when you will start. It takes time for your body to "regulate" it's cycle and, sometimes, it may be two or three times before you get into a regular pattern. They change without notice, but most people have consistent dates they can depend on throughout their period times. If, as you learn your cycle periods, you continue to experience unusual cycles, excessive bleeding (ie: having to completely change clothes every 1-1 1/2 hours), see your doc immediately. Don't be afraid ...they can help you. As for the guy, politely tell him if he doesn't leave you alone you're going to stick that pencil somewhere up him and it won't feel nice.
2006-11-02 10:36:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
This young boy is already sexually active, as you noticed. When this boy does unappropriate things, you must tell the teacher, no matter how embarssing it is. This boy can lure you into having sex with him and you can loose your viginity...don't wanna do that! Tell this boy, stop playing with you, and ignore this boy. If he sits next by you, move away from him. Avoid him of all time, and if he calls, hang up. It's rude, but it's safe. If you want, ask your teacher or mother because they know best. Your mother will be mad, and will call the boys mother, if you want that to happen. If you don't anyone to know, just ignore him and avoid him of all times....break his pencil if he does that, lol.
2006-11-02 10:30:57 · answer #6 · answered by shewolf2899 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
This guy sounds like a jerk. Do you really want to be disrespected in that way? Everyone will think less of you and this guy will more likely spread rumors of the things you two did together and maybe add a few major details and exagerate. Respect yourself. You are too young to be having sex in the first place. Take my advice. I wish that I was given this type of advice when I was young.
2006-11-02 10:30:18 · answer #7 · answered by Pinky 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Yikes! This boy is bad news. Stay away from him and tell a teacher or trusted adult about his actions... You are much too special to waste your time on a boy like that! Keep your body private and personal and you will feel much better about yourself. :)
As far as your period is concerned, the "normal" is about every 28 days to get your period. If this isn't happening for you, it could just take your body a few months to get regular. However, so you aren't caught "off-guard" you can wear a "light days" panty guard to catch any bleeding that you aren't expecting.
Good luck.
2006-11-02 10:30:15 · answer #8 · answered by Jodi B 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
sounds like his is being your average teenage boy - a bit of a dick! the best way to not get pregnant is to ot have sex. if you do want sex then do it sensibly, get advice, be protected. 12 is a bit young though darling and he doesn't sound like he is being very respectful either. if his behaviour is getting to you then talk to a teacher or school councellor if you have one. or just tell him to grow up and stop being so childish
oh and periods can be really iffatic when you first start the
2006-11-02 10:34:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Yucckkss.... that's disgusting you know... I'm 14 and I wanna give you some advice, go tell your teacher immediately about the boy. and don't worry, as long as you ignore him you won't get pregnant... Yeah, I know that you're too young to get pregnant, of course, 12 year old, oh my god....
2006-11-02 23:16:00 · answer #10 · answered by wonder why 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋