if you respond, i dont want a threesome. i love her and dont want to share. there is always jealosly.she says she is not bi or gay. but if i thought of another man pleasuring me to get aroused while masturbating i would think that would make me question my sexuality. she claims that other straight women often think the same thing and it is just different because girls are different then guys . i think that every one at one point in there life questions there sexuality but, to get aroused by thinking of another women pleasuring you while masturbating seems that maybe there is more then just curiosity and maybe a need to explore those feelings. believe me, as her boyfriend i dont want her to be gay. but i love her and if she does lean toward being with a woman then i just want her to be happy. i really dont know much on this topic and i thought i knew women pretty well bu i guess i dont so please let me know what you think. this is a serious question so i hope for serious reponses
2006-11-02 10:04:38 · 6 answers · asked by pino 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It's only a fantasy... She may not be bisexual but, from the sounds of it, she's bi-curious and the fantasy may be the limitation she'll deal with. Nothing wrong with that.
Haven't you ever seen and admired another guys body that it would make you feel a slight stir down there? Hey! Even guy get turned on by looking at themselves in the mirror... Seen anough of that at the gym...LOL
2006-11-02 10:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by Middlehitter 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
women fantasize about a great many things as men do. sharing as you can see, isn't always the best plan.
if she shared to let you know.. or shared just to be foolishly too honest is what you must determine..
(like you don't need to tell someone the i really notice that scar more in the sunlight kind of honesty then say, but i think your pretty.)
but maybe its just that brad pitt doesnt do it for her.
its what you think about when your not having sex and WHAT YOU ACT ON that counts.
2006-11-02 18:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by macdoodle 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Fantasizing about women or men for that matter, is normal. You may have "latent" homosexual tendencies, or you may be bisexual, whatever the label, just enjoy it. Each of us is both male and female, and the sooner we accept that we will not be so rigid in our acceptance of gender, sex, and sexual identity. This may be just a curious time, trying to figure things out. Or it might be just that is where your fantasy is taking you right now. I would not worry about it because it is your body and your life, you have a right to privacy in the bedroom.. If you can sit down and talk about this, it may just enhance your love making time in the bedroom. What does she want you to explore? Have you ever thought about that?
2006-11-02 18:12:41 · answer #3 · answered by Candy 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Girls have a very different relationship with other girls than two guys. But like you said at sometime in every-ones life they question their sexuality. I think your girl is normal for thinking of other girls while masturbating, but if she is wanting to explore things then you may want to talk with her about your relationship. Girls don't think it is any different to think of another girl than a guy. I think all ladies are sexually aroused by women and all want to have the chance to be with one at sometime and point in our lives, but it is the decision that we must choose. But i wish you luck with your Relationship!
2006-11-02 18:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by Shooting Star 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I think that she's quite normal. Fantasies involving women are probably much more tender than fantasizing about a man pounding you!
2006-11-02 20:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by karen W 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
She is sexually dynamic.
2006-11-02 18:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by TarKettle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋