I have been in a relationship for almost one yr now. It is long distance and we only see each other once a month. We are great when we are together. She has always been a very positive person and has always been there to pick me up when I am down. We have talked about marriage and me relocating to where she is, about 5 hours away. I have been dragging my heels on this because it is hard to leave somewhere you have been your entire life. I really do plan to be with her but I haven't been in a hurry about getting there. The distance has been very hard and at times I have taken her for granted and thought she would be there and I didn't really give her the time she needed such as phone calls,emails,letters. She knows I love her but my actions haven't always been consistent. Now she says she needs some time away from the relationship. I have taken some time to think about what I want and I will do anything to get her back. How can I make her understand things will be different?
2006-11-02 09:59:48 · 4 answers · asked by Jeff C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well you need to really decide if you want to be with her-possibly forever. I didn't sound like you wanted to move where she is, Why can't she come to you? If either one of you REALLY love one another,one of you would be willing to make the small sacrifice of moving. Now she is wanting some time away from the relationship,she got tired of waiting. If you now are realizing that you were taking her for granted-then show her. Actions speak louder than words. I hope this all works out for you and if not,then maybe it just wasn't meant to be.=}
2006-11-02 11:58:46 · answer #1 · answered by sexygal8321 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply put "Actions speak louder than words". You two already had it hard from the get go with a long distance relationship, then you not "showing" her you cared enough to write, call etc. was probably what has caused her to realize she wanted more and started looking elsewhere. It maybe to late to fix, all you can do now is to tell her what you going to do to prove it to her and then back it up with your actions and hope you can repair the damage you have done. Hopefully she still cares for you enough to give you another shot. GL
2006-11-02 18:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by whitebeanner 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move there with a dozen rose's show up at here place and ask her to marry you ! don't let it get away ! you might regret it as you are make sure she is open to work on it before you move ya don't want to move for nothing>>>> Good Luck ! Make your move .
2006-11-02 18:19:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋