My boyfriend is REALLY shy but really sweet. Before we were a couple he ALWAYS talked to me but now that we r a couple he doesnt talk to me anymore. Whenever I start a conversation he just like doesn't answer. But I cant just dump him cuz i still REALLY like him. So what should I do?
2006-11-02 09:48:54 · 12 answers · asked by gigglegeek 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just because he doesn't talk a great deal when you two are together doesn't mean anything. I talk to my girlfriend on the phone for a little while each day, but when we are together I can't ever think of anything to talk with her about, but that doesn't mean I care for her any less than before we started dating and we talked constantly. For guys, after a while we know what you like, what you would like, and all that so we don't feel like there is any reason to just go on talking about nothing. However, that doesn't mean your company is unwelcome. A lot of guys just like the company of the girl they care about. Don't take it too personally.
2006-11-02 09:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by scottiekruger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, when I was going out with my ex, it went the other way, it went we didn't talk at first because we were embarresed to talk to eachother because our friends, but then we started talking, maybe he's thinking you know somthing he doesn't want you to know, but you don't know what he doesn't want you to know. That may seem confusing, but if you read it a couple times, it makes a lot of scese. because that's why my friend broke up with her boyfriend!!
2006-11-02 17:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by dogy_16123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you are too young to even have a boyfriend! Surround yourself with friends!!! Go out, skate, go eat pizza, hang out at chuck e cheeses, go to the movies! Before it's too late
2006-11-02 17:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by angelic1302 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have that problem w/ mine . c the problem is that maybe u need to talk to him about ur family for lk maybe 2 hours that's how y boyfriend got over his shyness but then again all boys are different so maybe it'll work
2006-11-02 17:51:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably thinking "I don't want to say something stupid or something to make her upset" Is it his first real relationship? He's probably just nervous.. if he does'nt talk to you AT ALL then you have a problem... but just wait a few days and don't talk to him or anything. wait untill he calls you then talk about it
2006-11-02 17:52:18 · answer #5 · answered by Aries1704 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking online some night and make it casual. If this fails, maybe he's not into you.
2006-11-02 17:50:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are not going to take this mental abuse any longer. Tell him to start talking or to start walking.
2006-11-02 17:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by Bob P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he doesn't talk anymore. Maybe he's hiding a secret.
2006-11-02 17:50:46 · answer #8 · answered by drkstr1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well stay with him and get treated like crap..yeah way to have self respect
2006-11-02 17:50:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand still and be patient
if i were you....and see what will happen
2006-11-02 17:51:10 · answer #10 · answered by Paula 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋