My friends might know (my bisexuality)?

Question

My group of friends asked the other day if i was gay or bi. I laughed and sai OK uhm ... random lol because people think i have a crush on my friend Dereck so he asked me at lunch and all my friends 5 guys and 2 girls said just tell us now we swear we are gonna stick by you and love you the same we dont care and i was like wow ya are so random and i just kept laughing i changed the subject and they said you never awnsered the question i said ok ok no im not gay or bi but i am was that the perfect opprotunity to say something should i have said something because i am bi. Do you believe they would love me the same

Answer 1

If you tell them, your friends may say that they don't care or they don't think of you any differently, but guess who's gonna be the topic of conversation when the gay guy isn't around?

The gay guy.

Answer 2

You should NEVER answer when pressured! When YOU are ready to "come out," you will tell them.

In the meantime, just tell them that you "don't kiss and tell," or anything else to let them know that your sex life is private and none of their business.

In addition, if this is something you don't want to make public knowledge, don't tell at all. Even though your friends will "swear," somewhere down the line someone will tell someone, and then everybody will know. Even though there are probably other gay kids in your school, you will be the one who is "out," and most likely the target.

Don't come out to your friends or anybody until you are emotionally mature enough to handle the consequences, both good and bad.

Answer 3

If they have known you for years then yes, they will contuine to love you just the same. I'm sure someone has noticed little things about you that may make them wonder if you are bi, so they probably think you might be anyway. Also, if they are your true friends, then yes.

Answer 4

You done the right thing. Stay in the closet as long as you can. You sound like a good lad, you dont want to be classed in the same category as some of the screaching homo muppets on the site, like Tracer.

Be comfortable being you and the time will come when you will know it is right for you.

Answer 5

If they want to know and you don't mind admitting it then tell them openly.
If they don't love you anymore (or constantly laugh at you) after you tell them, then they are not worth befriending with anyway. Don't waste your time on people who are not your true friends.

Answer 6

I think they already like you or else they wouldn't be your friend, as for your sexuality, that's your business and a friend wouldn't ask or care about it.
Are they trying to fix you up with someone? that's the only reason why I think they would be interested.

Answer 7

I certainly hope so. It will be times like this where you find out who your friends really are. Hopefully they will stick by you and support you. I would. Your friendship would be more important to me than your sexuality. Good luck.

Answer 8

yes they will for the most part some of them may not , my advise is just be honest ,or sometimes i just ignore those guys who are trying too make fun of us gay guys ,basically the decision is yours too make if you feel they can handle it then tell them , if not just avoid answering their questions about it ,

Answer 9

Yes, I would have come out to them if I was you.

Answer 10

If you were babbling on like this, they won't love you even if you bang sheep. Get to the point faster!