My friend has the biggest crush on this guy in my neighborhood. I've been his neighbor since I was 3 but he went to a different school up until highschool. Now that we're in hiighschool, and our lockers are right next to each other we talk about twice a day. At homecoming I asked him to dance with my friend because she was to nervous to ask. I'm jealous for some reason though because he asked her out. What should I do?
2006-11-02 09:40:36 · 19 answers · asked by cheesehead 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You're jealous because you are attracted to him. Remain friendly, him asking her out doesn't mean they are engaged, it simply means that he asked her out. Until they're in a committed relationship (and dating is NOT a committed relationship) then he can date whomever he chooses. You're in highschool it's not like your "stealing" her future husband. At your ages you SHOULD be dating several people and keeping the relationships for later when you are mature enough to handle them.
2006-11-02 09:46:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you were the "middle man" in connecting those two. Second of all you have not really declared if you have any deep interest/feelings other than friendship for this guy. You might have felt jelouse because you've known him since your childhood and so you might have felt a little betrayal of your friendship. I guess if they are still on their first/second date and if you have strong feelings for this guy then you should tell him now. Better sooner than later. Only one way to find out where you stand with him and that is to talk to him about how you feel. It shouldn't be too hard considering you guys go way back. All the best!
2006-11-02 09:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheesehead: You have feelings for this guy neighbour of yours and are in denial about them. There is nothing you can do to change his choice of who he wants to dance with. BUT; there is a chance that he will have the last "waltz" with you. Try approaching him and asking him to go for a walk with you. While walking together - start asking him if he would like to go out with you to a movie, for a coffee (tea) or something. GRADUALLY develop a routine of going for a stroll with him every now and then and talk about anything and everything ! Eventually, he will get use to having you around but the trick is to SLOWLY work him into a relationship with you. Be bold and take action. Cause and effect. Good luck to you.
2006-11-02 09:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definatly would not think of so. I had to have paternity attempting out achieved for my 1st son. They take a swab of the mouth... toddler, mom and ability father. those cells are in comparison... this would supply your answer. the certainty that she is pregnant with yet another mans toddler shouldn't influence this attempting out. the toddler and all it is genes are in her uterus transforming into and has no longer something to do w/ the cheek cells or blood that they are going to be attempting out. in spite of everything, she's the mum, all of us comprehend this. definitely, somtimes i don't comprehend why they attempt the mum. The purpose, in particular, it to be sure the daddy. So his cells and genes are what the concentration is going to be on... nicely, his and the childs. i would not subject approximately this in any respect... in case you're too in touch, hi, ask the guy doing the attempting out. They comprehend what they are doing... or ought to anyhow... good success! that's a coarse venture... very stressing, i comprehend.
2016-12-28 11:17:29 · answer #4 · answered by frahm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be happy because you did your friend a favor! And i'm sure she's thanking you for it! About the jealous part...well you are th eone that pretty much fixed them up...im not saying its your fault though. be happy that he lives next door to you and you can stare at him whenever you want to! Even though hes not your boyfriend, you can still be friends and hang out all the time because its your friend and he wil probably be with her.
2006-11-02 09:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by emt2beme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"For some reason", means that you are attracted to this boy and that you wished that you had taken your own advice. Being brave for a friend is far easier than being brave for yourself. We should learn from these lessons that we NEED to take care of ourselves, from proper diet and exercise to friends and relationships. Pay close attention to the advice and help that you provide for your friends, I am sure that you can apply it to yourself just as easily. Good luck!
2006-11-02 09:53:12 · answer #6 · answered by yourluckystar69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r probsbly jealous cuz u grew up with him so u know him and even though u didn't realize it but liked as more than a friend but as a boyfriend. I say discuss this with him and your friend and if your friend doesn't like as much as she thought than go for it
2006-11-02 09:45:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
rent the movie "Clueless".
seriously, deep down you started to like him thats why your jealous. Wait and see where it goes with your friend an the guy. If nothing happens...only a few dates....then ask him out.
Good luck
2006-11-02 09:47:15 · answer #8 · answered by Pam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you could do now. You could just wait and see if it works out for the two of them. Stay his friend, sometimes friends have a bond. that means so much!
2006-11-02 09:47:30 · answer #9 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give something away if you like it. Don't share boys the same way. Be assertive and take him back before it's too late. Tell him how you feel. Men aren't mind readers even though my wife thinks i can read her mind.
2006-11-02 09:44:24 · answer #10 · answered by Chuck C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋