i cant stand my dads girlfriend who is polish mean and 50 yrs old
2006-11-02 09:38:00 · 16 answers · asked by Stephanie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Does she live with you? Put eyedrops (visine) in her beverage and give her the runs reeeeeeeeeeal bad.
2006-11-02 09:39:50 · answer #1 · answered by KS5957 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 38 years old but when I am around my parents, I regress to a little girl every time. I don't want another woman to even speak to my handsome father and the same with my mother...I am very possesive of my parents, especially my dad. I understand your plight but you have to ask yourself something...does this lady make your dad happy? Had he been alone or lonely for a long time? See, I don't know the circumstances surrounding their relationship so I don't know what else to tell you...If your father is wealthy and you think this woman is a gold digger then that is something else. I am a minister so the main thing I can tell you is to pray God's will for your father's life...not YOUR will, but God's perfect will. I will touch in agreement in prayer with you for a swift, clear answer from God whether it be in the form of an event or audibly that you hear the answer but in any case, you must promise not to do anything to interfere. You must allow God to handle the situation either way, whether you like it or not. Okay? Let me know how things turn out. Peace and blessings be multiplied unto you and yours in Jesus name. Amen.
Angelia
2006-11-02 17:48:42 · answer #2 · answered by ajhunter3824 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do! You can't tell your father how to live his life. What you need to do is sit down with both of them and talk about what is bothering you. Maybe you haven't tried to accept her and get to know her. Maybe she feels threatened by you - it could be a lot of things dear. You both apparently love your father so it is worth trying to work this out. She can't be all bad if your father loves her so try and talk to them together and hopefully you can get past this or suggest family counseling. good luck
2006-11-03 10:05:05 · answer #3 · answered by lil redneck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shame on you.This is not about you this is about your dad. Plus what is the deal about her being Polish.So what...If she makes your dad happy then you should be happy for him. Start thinking about someone besides yourself and try to get along with her.She might just do the same...
2006-11-02 17:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your father has the right to date whomever he chooses. But you do need to tell him how you feel. You haven't said why you don't like her. It doesn't seem like she has done anything to you. I'm not to sure why you don't like her other then the fact that she is dating your dad.
2006-11-02 17:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be happy that your dad is happy...dont say anything bad to him about her.....even if its killing you...it would mean alot to your dad if you would get along.....even if you have to fake it...if you love your dad youll do it.....or come around when shes not around ...your dislike for her is hurting your dad...kill her with kindness...but let it go....your only gonna put distance between you and your dad....are you willing to let that happen?over his girlfriend?be the daughter he loves and admires.....
2006-11-02 17:52:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your dad about it! If he doesn't listen to you and talk to his girlfriend about it then he's mean.If you need some more advice I suppose you could ask your mom (if shes not dead...?)
2006-11-02 17:44:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. It's his choice, not yours. You have to show her respect because she's an adult and older than you are and because it would make your dad happy.
2006-11-02 17:39:36 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and talk to your dad about why you dislike his new girl friend. odds are he'll respect you because you are acting like an adult and choosing to inform him of your feelings.
after all, he IS your father and should respect you.
2006-11-02 17:42:22 · answer #9 · answered by BABY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gonna have to bite the tongue...it's his girlfriend not yours. You need to respect his choice and do the best you can.
2006-11-02 17:42:21 · answer #10 · answered by Barbara H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋