To know the person enough that you would want to spend the rest of your life with them... and not want to give up when it gets rough. Knowing that divorce isn't possible and that you both agree to work on the relationship 110% is half the battle right there. Because if you both think one day, there's an "out", you both won't try to the degree that it takes to make it work.
That you're able to be the best wife/husband you can be - no matter what the other person says or does. To be able to love them unconditionally.
If you aren't ready to do those things - you aren't ready to have a successful marriage.
2006-11-02 09:32:44
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answered by nimeeshabp 1
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In MY opinion both spouses having a firm belief in God is a very successful component of marriage. BUT, that's my opinion, I've only been married 5 yrs, been w/my husband since we were 16, were now 29-5 kids, house, cars, investment properties, etc.....all w/the love-strength-guidance of God .
God Bless
2006-11-02 09:39:52
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answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4
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I actual have been with my better half for 6-a million/2 staggering years. Our cardinal rule: on no account bypass to mattress MAD OR disillusioned. We consistently decide for something huge or small until now going to sleep daily. We communicate approximately each and every thing and on no account bypass away something bottled up. whether she talks to me in a pointy tone, I enable her be responsive to it bothered me and of direction, she apologizes for no longer determining she did it and vice versa (because of the fact I actual have executed the comparable). even nevertheless our relationship isn't "classic", we are nevertheless 2 human beings venturing by way of existence mutually and sharing the stories alongside the way. yet another tip: THE LITTLE issues fairly DO depend! whether that's a love be conscious or a prevalent homestead-cooked meal while that's not expected, the little issues do make the international bypass 'around. This all may be cheesy, even nevertheless that's what has stored our relationship going and could proceed on 'til loss of existence do us area! and that i do no longer care who you're, yet changing the monotony interior the mattress room consistently facilitates! yet, while you're particularly chuffed, that's seen an incentive particularly of an argument! One final tip: HONESTY is fundamental!!! in case you fairly love somebody, there will be no room for deceit. sturdy success inclusive of your love of your existence and that i'm hoping this helped! :)
2016-12-09 01:31:04
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answered by lot 4
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Communication. Let each other know what is going on. What is bothering you and sharing things. Don't fight about money (many couples do). The person you marry should be the one you can tell everything to. Remember that this is the person you love and each other should not do something to hurt the other. One should always be looking out for the other.
2006-11-02 09:30:18
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answered by Snuffy Smith 5
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that actually would need several hundred pages to answer.
1 honesty.
2 trust.
3communication.
4 forgiveness.
5 understanding
6 loyalty
7 marriage comes first ( both of you involved in every important decision )
8 sacrifice
9 he or she come first always
10 let he or she feel as they need to feel, angry with you, upset, loving, sexy whatever the feeling do not control the way the other person is feeling.
2006-11-02 09:33:14
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answered by Anonymous
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Getting real about your relationship & each other.
Once you figure out what that is, it's easy to build on it thereafter.
Although there're no sure ways or secrets to a successful marriage, it is a continuous work in progress.
Listen to your partner. Giving each other space. Compromise.
2006-11-02 13:43:00
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answered by ViRg() 6
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I think if you have a desire to please each other and make each of your dreams come true then things will be great. Its when you lose sight of each other and stop listening, that things fall apart...then you lose respect and trust and even attraction to the other person. when your needs are met you feel fulfilled and when you go through hard times you stick together. I have been married a long time and its not easy...especially when kids come into the picture....I wish you luck
2006-11-02 09:40:25
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answered by D K 1
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I'm not going to try to list all of them, instead I will list one that is often neglected: respect! People are so inclined to belittle one another to make themselves feel better, and all it does is contribute to the erosion of the marriage.
There are many other components, which I'm sure other people will list.
2006-11-02 09:29:14
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answered by James L 5
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1. Strong faith base
2. Being friends
3. Communication
4. Fidelity.
5. Respect for one another
6. Love
7. Always knowing that things will never be perfect because we are imperfect people
2006-11-02 09:47:59
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answered by Deja' Vu 2
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What you have in common!
Such as church association, education, physical attraction, economic status, honesty, likes/dislikes.
Without these basic qualities, communication can never happen.
Without agreeable communication, there cannot be a successsful marriage.
2006-11-02 09:37:03
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answered by TenJac 4
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