i'm not a whore, please don't judge me easily. i'm just being true to myself, & i'm stating things as they are. my husband is often away, & i need the warmth of a man's body. his friend is willing & very much able in satisfying my needs - both sexual & emotional. & since my firstborn child is my lover's, though my hubby doesn't know it, i know that i'm completely attached to my lover... even if i love my husband also. of course, i feel guilty with what we're doing behind my husband's back, but shall i waste my feminine heat when somebody can douse it? i mean, let's be honest, girls. we all love to be satisfied sexually & emotionally by a real man, specially a well-endowed one, ryt? & since my husband is clueless, we are not hurting him at all, so to keep our hot matings really hot, isn't it better not to divorce him? because in this way my husband contributes, unknowingly, to our pleasure when we're making love. i know it's rude, but i have a point, right?
2006-11-02 09:22:19 · 24 answers · asked by Rose A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well you are a whore - ah duh
2006-11-02 09:25:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO YOU HAVE A POINT??? H*LL TO THA NAW!!!
You say don't judge you too quickly, but your soooo selfish. Your husband's marital, and family neglect is caused by his ability to PROVIDE for you and your family. How bout you stop the WHORISH ways and confront your husbands about your very basic need as a woman. You wanting the warmth of a man is normal, natural in fact, it's nothing at all wrong with it, I feel the same way when my husbands work schedule changes, and he's not home at night, but you need to grow up, and be a woman, and not a WHORE. If being alone alot is not acceptable to you.................. leave the marriage. And if this lover is all that and a bag of chips, then maybe he can be a real man, stop fu*king his so called friends wife, and marry you, and provide a descent life.......but I'm sure he's really not half the man your husband is,,,,,and unfortunately your husband is clueless. Your lucky I don't know who you really are I'd let your husband know you ain't worth the time of day!
2006-11-02 09:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how lonely I may get without my husband being home as much as i would like him to be I dont need another man to take his place to satisfy my needs or to comfort me when he is away. I know that he is busting his *** to take care of our family so I dont give him the guilt trip but sometimes I do because he never has as much energy for our kids or me on days off. I dont agree with what you are doing its wrong to me how would you feel if it were reversed you would be pissed off and call him a dog and throw everything he owns outside right? I cant believe that you have a child with a man besides your husband and he doesnt know I am sorry that is just wrong in my opinion. So really you are keeping him around for financial reasons not because you really love him you are messing around with another guy why not get divorced? I feel sorry for your husband he goes out to make a living for you and a child that isnt his so that while he is away you can screw another man in the same bed that you and your husband share shame on you. Where is your priorities you have a husband that you should be pyhsically, amotionally involved with and women always blame men for this kind of stuff. Just end this marriage you have to feel a little guilty and ashamed of yourself.
2006-11-02 11:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by 2wild4u 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wont judg eyou easily, it will be HARD! Your a whore. You only think of yourself and plugging your hole. SUX to be your kid. The only reason your with your husband is cuz he has given you a home and supports you and "his" child and you know that this guy your banging, while he gives you Orgasms and children wont cop to anything he is responsible for. He's just there to get laid. Who's feeding that child and giving him a home?...Your frie..oops...I mean husband yeah thats right. That guy deserves to get "his" child and his freedom with no ties to you at all next thing you know he'll be raising more of your lovers kids! Thats weak ,ya cheap trick! If you wanted the spice you should of asked your husband to kick it up or had his input on 3 ways or somthing, but it seems that all you want is what you think is yours and more. Why hasent this friend showed more intrest in taking care of the whole deal instead of just squeezing one off in you all the time?
2006-11-02 09:41:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're a very selfish person and your husband deserves a lot better. If you can't (which simply means "won't") control your urges, then do your husband a favor and tell him the truth and let him out of that marriage. And don't you dare ask for half the house etc, etc. You betrayed him and your marriage vows and deserve to be kicked to the curb. Then go shack up with his so-called friend until you cheat on each other. Enjoy the misery.
2006-11-02 09:27:22 · answer #5 · answered by Rob VH 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How can you say you aren't a whore. You are worse than one. The first child is your lovers and your husband thinks it's his. This is so wrong... To have sex while your husband is away, how can you live with yourself and look him in the eyes and not just die. You will get yours in the end sister. I really can't believe anyone has the mentality to try to justify something like this. You can't have your cake and eat it to. Hope your husband finds out real soon, you sorry piece of human dung.
2006-11-02 09:35:44 · answer #6 · answered by Chuck C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
man.. honey./. you are gonna get shot down so bad by everyone answering ya.. Ya know it is wrong. (UR weak..) That's about it. You are being unfair to everybody (including yourself..) you are lying to you, the two fellahs (and face it, you are being selfish.. it's to this innocent kid I mean! you owe this kid the truth.) You are placing yourself first.. wrong.. wrong.. wrong.. It won't be good much longer I predict.. I don't know how you can do it. I been married to a real (I want to say not so smart) fellah for l2 years. I work out and get 'looks' and this guy is impotent I am married to.. BUT I don't run around on him. (Tough to just play with yourself all the time, er.. masturbate?.. but I do it.. it's all I got except.. I DO have my self esteem.. I would lose that if I screwed around with everybody like you are doing, dearie..) peace-n-luv
2006-11-02 09:27:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you do not have a point.
Grow up. You made a vow and you are breaking it. Your husband will eventually find out and will probably be devastated. Either fix your marriage or end it. Why on earth should your husband provide for you when you are treating him so selfishly?
2006-11-02 09:32:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, got the point...you are posting desperate housewife erotica.
You are reading too many "bodice ripper" novels or watching too many soap operas. Get a life.
2006-11-04 06:04:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats in the dark will ALWAYS come to light........
Why r u married?.... ur better off getting divorced... and be real to urself.. it's not fair to ur husband. even if he doesnt know, he has trust in u and thats betrayal....
2006-11-02 09:27:02 · answer #10 · answered by Sicilian Princess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely a whore!
2006-11-02 09:44:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋