i'm not a whore, please don't judge me easily. i'm just being true to myself, & i'm stating things as they are. my husband is often away, & i need the warmth of a man's body. his friend is willing & very much able in satisfying my needs - both sexual & emotional. & since my firstborn child is my lover's, though my hubby doesn't know it, i know that i'm completely attached to my lover... even if i love my husband also. of course, i feel guilty with what we're doing behind my husband's back, but shall i waste my feminine heat when somebody can douse it? i mean, let's be honest, girls. we all love to be satisfied sexually & emotionally by a real man, specially a well-endowed one, ryt? & since my husband is clueless, we are not hurting him at all, so to keep our hot matings really hot, isn't it better not to divorce him? because in this way my husband contributes, unknowingly, to our pleasure when we're making love. i know it's rude, but i have a point, right?
2006-11-02 09:18:50 · 14 answers · asked by Rose A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-11-02 09:22:47 · answer #1 · answered by reactor215 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? You do NOT love your husband if you are doing this to him. And the fact that you're asking if you should divorce him just to fulfill your own lustful desires is beyond me. Why did you get married in the first place?
Why does he travel all the time? Maybe if you need the warmth of a man's body - you should talk to your husband about being home more to be able to give that to you.
Just because your husband doesn't know, doesn't mean you aren't hurting him. What if you told him? Wouldn't he be hurt then?
You're not being rude to us, you're being rude to your husband. Beyond rude...
2006-11-02 09:28:06 · answer #2 · answered by nimeeshabp 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think what you have is a cuckold situation which can be a real turn on for a wife. Hubby is her best buddy and they do things together but she needs a real man that can just take her and use her like a sexy little slut. I say keep going because this seems to be a real sexual need ( not just a turn on ) but a need to have a bull on the side. Keep it up, dont feel quilty, be a good wife and a good slut for your bull and things will go well.
2006-11-02 09:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 11:39:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love your husband you would grant him the right to know that his life is an illusion. Why did you marry him if you need your fire put out knowing that he would be gone for long periods of time? If his friend is so great - divorce your husband and marry the friend instead. Then everybody could have a clear conscience.
2006-11-02 09:25:36 · answer #5 · answered by Evoljz_Girl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
look now. its not hurting him now, but when he finds out about what you have been doing behind his back and that his first kid is not really his anyway when he digs further for facts on how long you guys have been doing it, your unfaithfulness is going to kill him and the longer it takes for him to find out the deeper this will cut him .
your animal instinct and sexual hormones in you might tell you to do this, but if you are really loyal to your husband and truely love him, you wouldn't sacrifice your love for him to purely satisfy your own lustful pleasures and gain, you would think on behalf of him.
2 things you can do:
1) if you truely love your husband, tell your lover that you gotta stop this as it is not being fair to your husband whom you love better and you want to start a new.
2) if you do love your lover better instead, why are you still with your husband? two-timing is not good. would it be ok if your husband has been away from you and you are out of his sight... he gets lonely and finds a sexy lady to dance in his lap and bang with for a while as long as you don't see. he's having good hot steamy sex with her and its all natural to have his animal instincts fulfilled without thinking of respecting you. who knows... maybe he is, that's why he's pretending that he doesn't know that you are getting hot and heavy with your significant OTHER.
i;m not judging you, but people don't do this to people they truely love. because true love means putting the interest and safety of the one you love before your own. and if you are willing to put his second to yours, maybe you don't love him that much after all.
don't do what you would n't want others to do to you.
good luck.
2006-11-05 19:05:00 · answer #6 · answered by Spidergurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was the husband in a similar situation and I WAS clueless, til I and our kid's found out....there is no good way to explain the ungodly pain and agony we went thru....no good can come of this...stop now, before you hurt the one you claim to love....
2006-11-02 09:23:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Well in my opinion dude if you feel like you have to expose your business and remain the victim tell your girl to stop playing the games and tell her what you won't stand for, how you feel, and what you want, then you won't have to come on here and write this letter as if you were her looking for answers and embarrassing her as well as yourself!
2006-11-02 09:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
too late, you've been judged. you're a tramp. eventually, when this is all found out, you're going to just have the memory of really good sex to keep you warm. sorry your marriage isn't working out, but it doesn't sound like you're working it too hard yourself.
2006-11-02 09:33:22 · answer #9 · answered by no_wait_hes_spartacus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
More erotica postings Rosa? You stories are boring us.
2006-11-04 06:07:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋