Why do some white girls allow black men to mistreat them and call them racist names?

Question

Ive seen white girls allow themselves to be disrespected. Its self hate

Answer 1

not all white women let me disrespect them. some women can't stand up to a man regardless of his race. it is not just black men that disrespect women. I am white and I have always dated black men, and I do not let them disrespect me. My man has lots of respect for me like i do for him

Answer 2

I don't think it is a matter of race - some women just allow any man to mistreat them, for lack of self-respect on their part. Their self-esteem is so low, they are more concerned with "having a man" than the quality of the relationship. This goes along with abuse and the victimization, hence the reason they allow themselves to be treated so carelessly. It isn't just white girls allowing black men to treat them discourteously. It happens with other couples of all races. It is more a subject of why does a man decide to mistreat a woman kind of thing. :)