I am 15 years old...I have a boyfriend, and I am not allowed to see him, my stepsister is also 15 she comes home at 4:00 in the mornin' and her mom doesnt care. but her mom checks on me in the middle of the night to see if I'm there...is there anyway I can just refuse to go home, my dad has not been home for 3 weeks he just had back surgery and he stays over at my grandmothers house, he is not home at all...I just want out of here...is there anything I can do, if so what would happen?
2006-11-02 08:42:12 · 8 answers · asked by Cassie S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I will 16 next month...I have somewhere I can go besides a childrens home though
2006-11-02 08:49:02 · update #1
no.
please go back to your home.
2006-11-02 08:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by bangla answer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful what you wish for because you just might get it! If they prove neglect you will go to a shelter until you can get placement in a group home which is what I work in. You'll never EVER see your boyfriend again. I'm not saying this to be negative or nasty, I'm saying this because this is the reality of it. Group homes are run tighter than a navel ship in the military! Everything is a regimented time slot to which must be followed accordingly, no if, ands or buts about it! It is not pleasurable in the least and its not supposed to be! Most of the clients we take in need that type of discipline to maintain life for them because they had no life at home and have become very mentally unstable due to that. Through discipline and military style life the kids learn structure and that is what this type of place is designed to give so If that is what you are looking for in life, welcome!
2006-11-02 16:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by soniaatcalifornia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you left, your parents could call the cops. at worst, you'd end up in a group home, where you'd probably be forced to stay till legal age. at best, they wouldn't notice or care or feel that they could do anything, and you'd be free to do what you want.
if you can hold off till you're 16, come to canada. at least in ontario, that's age of majority, so the police couldn't force you to return... granted, there's the issue of illegal entry though.
good luck, and don't let the ******* get you down.
2006-11-02 16:46:31 · answer #3 · answered by leer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Talk to her about it. But try and talk to her about it with you dad.
2. Just ask if you can spend the night at a trusted friends house, Ask your friend if your boyfriend can hang out, But have him leave. Not with you either.
2006-11-02 16:50:17 · answer #4 · answered by keo_fighter_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your grandmothers house and talk with your dad and grandmother and tell her you want to stay with her. Don't do it so you can do what you want, instead do it to get a better outlook on life.
Good luck !
2006-11-02 17:02:23 · answer #5 · answered by This, That & such 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can end up in a children's home!! and they are not a great place to go if you don't have to!
go stay with your dad at you grandmothers!
2006-11-02 16:46:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you cant you are still a child you can be emancipated at 17 or 18
2006-11-02 16:45:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you need to go home. hope things get better just hang in there
2006-11-02 16:46:07 · answer #8 · answered by brighton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋