im the uglyest in my house. i got to older sisters. they are more prettier actually have friends. they get asked out all the time. i dont have friends and i have always been the ugly girl in school and at home im really quiet. i usally dress with t shirts,sweater, and sweat pants, im a girl. i dont think i should drees with nice cloths since im ugly.
2006-11-02 08:40:55 · 17 answers · asked by Emma B. 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Yes. Yes, it is.
Armani or someone once said that the most beautiful makeup anyone can wear is passion. The beauty has to start within you. If you keep putting yourself down and thinking that you're the ugliest and comparing yourself to your sisters, you won't give the seeds of beauty time or room to grow inside you. Respect yourself, and respect others, and sooner or later that change will show on your face. I don't know what the connection is, but beauty on the inside always finds some way of leaking to the outside. Smile at more things, or at least find more beautiful things to smile at every day: a beautiful leaf, a good meal, something funny in school. While physically we always think we lose out to the unrealistically perfect looking people, it's important to play up things that you don't think they have: feed and use your intellect, be as kind as possible to all people, develop a great sense of humor.
Hope this helped; keep your head up
2006-11-02 08:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, once you work on your confidence and self-esteem and see the inner beauty that you possess, you will be able to show that to other people. If you keep dressing down b/c you don't feel worthy, then other people will treat you the same way. But if you have confidence and know that no matter how you look, that you have a great personality and are a great friend, then friends will be easy to make and someone will come along who loves you for you. The more you put yourself down, the lonelier you will be. Even if you never become the prettiest girl in the world, at least people won't focus on your outer appearance if you have the right attitude about yourself. Don't give up. Keep telling yourself that you're the bomb and eventually you'll start to believe it and act accordingly.
2006-11-02 08:53:57 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel like you don't deserve to dress better - just do it. It will make you feel better about yourself
And about the "ugly duckling" question - my cousin was WAY ugly when she was a kid and now she is a BIG model and TV star - so there is always time for you to try different hair styles, maybe work out and sculpt your body a bit and sometimes you just have to grow and your face changes shape.
2006-11-02 08:44:44 · answer #3 · answered by island3girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, all this answers for you, couldn´t say which is the best...but yes, sometimes that is possible, and you can always do something to look better. And even if you were to be ugly outside all your life, compensate, be the swan inside, in the long run this will get you farther than anything outside.
2006-11-02 11:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by Char 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eva Longeria was said to be the "ugliest girl" in her house too, and look how beautiful she is today. Just try to dress nice, even when others are under dressed. From there you will start to feel a little more confident. If you ask me, confidence takes you further than beauty any day.
2006-11-02 08:43:48 · answer #5 · answered by wrtrchk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One, you need more confidence:). Dress the nice clothes, a nice sweater or piece of jewerly. I also know of several actresses (and actors) and models who were "Ugly ducklings" before they blossomed into a beautiful swan.
2006-11-02 08:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by rem5765 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a good relationship with your sisters, you could ask them to help you with your image. Lots of people are in the same situation you are, you will probably find out how to dress nice, style your hair, and wear make-up too, if you just ask. It can't hurt right?
2006-11-02 08:52:24 · answer #7 · answered by tiff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt talk about yourself like that. i undersand the feeling and competition of having older siblings. but let me tell ya something...
you only have 1 life to live so make it worth living ... i know life stinks but act like you are in your own world and dont let the things of reality bother you. trust me. this is the best advice you can get! =]
i hope you have a better life after reading this. i hope you will realize how fast life goes by and u souldnt be here sulking in your sis' shadows.its ok to look a certain way ... to dress a certain way .. and to do a certain thing.
NEVER FOLLOW THE CROWD ... DO YOU WHAT WANT TO DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HAVE FUN!
good luck! =]
2006-11-02 08:46:20 · answer #8 · answered by kisses_in_the_rain212 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have low self-esteem. I guarantee someone out in the world thinks you are beautiful. Have more confidence and strut your stuff. Remember that you are femal and that is all most guys need. Show some attitude and you will them barking at your door. Trust me, I am a guy.
2006-11-02 08:51:09 · answer #9 · answered by Janee L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not ugly you jest think that you are you must start thinking more positive and yes I have seen girls transform into swans and you should definitely start wearing nice things you will feel better about yourself and it will help to make you MORE ATTRACTIVE
2006-11-02 08:49:43 · answer #10 · answered by delmonticoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋