so junior prom is coming up right, and there's boy that i liked. my cousin had asked him if he wanted to take me to prom he said yes and we both agreed that we would go as friends. then the same night that my cousin asked him, we were hanging out in our development, and all of a sudden he just kisses me, tounge and everything, then he tells me that even though i did that, i am not looking for a relationship, i said neither am i. so two days after this happened, he haventh said a word to me and he seem to be ignoring me. what do you think happened? and to add he is white and i am black and we live in pennsylvania
2006-11-02 08:39:13 · 12 answers · asked by coleforlife 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't think it is a racial thing. If it was, he wouldn't have kissed you to start with. Maybe he got razed by his friends, maybe he changed his mind and doesn't want to go to the prom with you. Could be anything. I am a firm beliver that guys suffer from PMS too. I would just ask him without being accusatory, what is the problem. Dont' try to take blame or apologize for anything you didn't do. But don't come off mad or hostile. Just approach him and calmly ask him why he is not as talkative and seems to be avoid ing you. Coudln't hurt. You might find the answer you are looking for. Good Luck
2006-11-02 08:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if this person is avoiding you because he feels you do not like him and maybe he was coming on a little to hard and now he doesn't know what to say to you.... So if you are going to go to the Junior Prom you need to have courage to say WHats UP? You know all this drama about a kiss though it may have been special is what you should have said but we live and learn about feelings as we get older and thats why you should stay out of relationships until you get a little older with some advice.
2006-11-02 08:44:46 · answer #2 · answered by nsprdwmn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I have my junior prom coming up too, and i live in PA. So we have a little something in common. I think he really likes you and just doesnt want to get into anything serious. He is probably just confused. Just take him aside and talk to him. Dont make it seem so serious because that could just scare him. Say something like "hey, so, i was just wondering if you were ignoring me because of the kiss or what? I just dont understand" it lets him know that yes, you have noticed that he is ignoring you but you arent mad, you just want an answer.
2006-11-02 08:45:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was a little embarrassed that he caught you off guard that he just said that he didnt want a relationship hoping you would say just the opposite so he could not feel so guilty about kissing you like he did. But since it didnt go that way he just avoided you hoping you would forget that it ever happened, which obviously didnt happen!
2006-11-02 08:54:20 · answer #4 · answered by strwberryshortcake_65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure about the pennsylvania thing ~
He may have an issue with the mixing of races. Or maybe his parents are bigots and he is afraid to tell you. Or............he could just be a teenage boy!
2006-11-02 08:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by JUNONNKI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honey he like you a whole lot color has nothing to do with it. now that he did that he is either frighten that you dont feel the same or he whating on a response. dont throw yourself at him continue being his friend. relationships are much better frienship is 1st
2006-11-02 08:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by allendreamcometrue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may be scared of other peoples reaction to you going out. It sounds like he likes you, just scared.
2006-11-02 08:43:27 · answer #7 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAY BE HE IS JUST A LITTLE EMBARRASSED ABOUT WHAT HAPPENED. U SHOULD TRY TO TALK TO HIM AND SEE WHAT IS UP. SEE IF HE HAS CHANGED HIS MIND. HE IS MOST LIKELY JUST A LITTLE SHY.
2006-11-02 08:45:31 · answer #8 · answered by ROSIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think hes jst feels a little awkward aftr doin all that stuff
2006-11-02 08:42:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me just tell you right quick...... white boys are crazy! but he just probably kissed you to see if there was any sparks flying
2006-11-02 08:42:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋