What are signs that a person is cheating?? when you live together?

Question

My girlfriend has completely stop kissing and and being intimate is a dead issue in our relationship. She dont ever tell me she loves me anymore unless I ask or say it first. She has had a history of being confortable with male friends. She get mad at me for little things and really get upset. She don't hardly ever compliment me. And she always talking about things I need to change with myself. Are these signs??????

Answer 1

Well i would speak on this, I just had an baby 8 months ago and i count the same days that my Mother pass that make me go crazy but i change alot and not once i left to go out i stop talking on the phone and i always go to lunch and come and go from work. Sometimes people just need to find there time alone! Its a woman and a Man and may I say there 1st child. Wake up.
SHE LOVES YOU.

Answer 2

Signs? She's practically spelling it out on a billboard by the side of the road. Why are with this girl anyway. She never compliments you, just tells you everything you need to change (that's criticism). She's not physically or verbally affectionate. She's making you feel so uneasy that you're doubting if she's even being faithful. I don't see one thing that you're getting out of this relationship.

Answer 3

Obviously things are different from when you started seeing her. I think that you should leave, just get out and keep on walking. There is someone who will be a better catch for you. As long as you have the bait, there is always another fish in the sea.

Now go, throw this one back in the water and pull out your fishing gear!!

Answer 4

not necessarily.

have you guys recently had a baby or a major life changing experience? could be stress or depression maybe?
one person does not need to change within a relationship, you both need to 'grow' together.
if shes out a lot of the time without telling you, or starting to hide things, then maybe id be asking questions.

hope this helps

Answer 5

Well I can speak from my own experience. My ex wife started spending time with her boss outside of work and became less intimate with me, I suspect an affair. I found out I was right. My thought was this, if she isnt giving the lovin to me she is giving it to someone. Pay attention to the little voice in your head and heart.

Answer 6

I'm sorry to say but she's just not that into you anymore. Plus why would you want to be with someone that doesn't respect you? It's easier said than done you should move on and then she'll realize what she has lost. You probably derseve better too.

Answer 7

Sounds like it is time to express these feelings with her...I too am going through the same thing, however, I hope you have better luck.. I set my husband down adn told him how I felt and what I wanted out of life, marriage, and a man..Still no reaction, and I mean NO reaction...I might have done better to talk to the walls, they have heard it all anyways!

Answer 8

Yeah, dump that 'ho, dude. She's looking for an out and she's trying to get you to be the first one to say so. Then she can pretend to be hurt and blame you, instead of the other way around. It's a game people play when they don't have the guts to just say, it's over.

Answer 9

Yes I would say those are signs!!from my own experience now watch to see if she is making any changes like being late,clothes so forth. If not they will. If you like yourself then tell her you will not change for her or anyone else. And continue being yourself. Good Luck

Answer 10

I think they are signs and you should ask her about this situation and before you both blow up at each other and can never be friends again I would probably just pack my stuff and leave or throw her's out on the lawn...