OK...there is the boy named josh kelley in my school and i feel really bad for him....even if he is kind of gross. he wears the same clothes everyday, has the most buckest teeth you could ever see (they stick practically straight out) and has ears that have black stuff in them! but everybody teases him and i feel bad...what should i do about it? if i stick up for him and be his friend, ill be a nerd. but i dont want to be his friend, i just want to make sure he isnt teased anymore. and the worst part is that this guy i think is hott teases him a lot...and i dont think he is worth liking. what do you think? and what should i do about josh? should i just leave him alone or stick up for him?
2006-11-02
08:16:02
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LISTEN PEOPLE...THAT IS NOT HIS REAL NAME! ITS JUST A NAME THAT I MADE UP!
2006-11-02
09:06:58 ·
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I would stick up for him. I would also tell the school counselor. I knew someone like that when i was in school.I was the only one they would talk to and yes I did get picked on for standing up for them but you know what I later found out that I was the only reason they did not commit suicide...he said I gave him hope! anyone can go with the crowd but it takes a real hero to go against it!
2006-11-02 08:22:07
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answered by Anonymous
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If you can imagine the lasting memory Josh will have of school, you can probably imagine how much a small change for him could make a lot of difference. Tell him to take more time to bathe, and maybe take up smoking or chewing bubble gum and blowing big bubbles to more hide his facial imperfections. The important thing is that you point out to him the things he could change about himself to make himself stand out less (or fit in better). If you do this make sure you do when no one else is around to hear it because otherwise you will come off to him as just another bully that needs to be ignored. Most importantly, remember that Josh is a human being and aside fom the way he looks he is exactly the same as you. Let him know that you are sincerely trying to help.
2006-11-02 08:35:02
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answered by David K 1
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2016-09-01 06:12:42
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answered by likins 4
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I say stick up for him. Maybe this guy is a homeless and he has no place to stay. If you were in his place you would want the same treatment. besides what makes you think that teasing that poor boy is going to make that hot Guy like you? He may not even know if you're exist.
2006-11-02 08:42:29
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answered by meamy 3
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Well you could be nice and by him some things like shirts, pants soap toothpaste deodorant and small items it would make a differance, i dont know if your mom could help you or anything but you could give his parents money too (like $20 or something) just to be nice then you wouldnt be a nerd but a helpful person and guys like to see that so maybe that "hott" guy will ask you out or something!~!~~!~
2006-11-02 08:21:23
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answered by ♥22♥im in love with this guy. 1
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FIRST OF ALL if the dude you like is picking on other kids than he isnt worth your time....no matter HOW cute u may think he is. and second....i say you stick up for the lil nerd, who cares what other people think of you....people will respect that more in the end than some girl who followed EVREYONE ELSE and there mother. You could do it. stop caring what everyone else thinks or says.
2006-11-02 08:35:33
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answered by luvbuggy!!!! 2
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Just because you stick up for someone, doesn't mean you're a nerd, what's wrong with nerds anyway? You should either stick up for him or tell the counselor. Plus I would never like someone that ridicules someone that's weaker than them because they may not like the person that likes them, but you're the only one in this situation that can truly make the right choice. It's all in your hands.
2006-11-02 08:51:45
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answered by pgenius3 3
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I think you should buy him some hygiene products buy him some new clothes and fix him up have you seen the movie "love don't cost a thing" when she fixed Nick Cannon up before he was a nerd and he was the cutest guy in school you probably have seen it well I don't know.
2006-11-02 11:35:26
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answered by ♥Natasha♥ 4
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Thats life and the world of school kids theres nothing u can do to make that stop but tell him to fix his hygene
2006-11-02 08:20:28
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answered by pg#3 3
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the guy you like is Probably not worth your time, i think you should talk with your counselor so that maybe his parents or the proper authorities can be notified,
2006-11-02 08:21:23
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answered by Anonymous
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