2006-11-02 08:11:40 · 9 answers · asked by bevee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hazeleyes you are so full of yourself that you think everyone is into vibrators. Don't listen to her my friend. I know how you feel. I have been married for 8 years and even though it's not as long as you have, it tends to run around the same. People change as time go by. They have likes and dislikes. Try a simple conversation with the both of you in a cozy corner of your home. No distractions. No kids. Dim lights with you holding her and maybe a bottle of wine and some fruits. Ask her what's her favorite color, hobby etc. Don't look for anything from her, but try to do things that she likes. Rub her feet and maybe set a bath for her. Candles and rose petals. Take her to the movies and if money is an issue, then do most things at home. Go for walks with her and hold her hands. she'll come around soon. Remember.......if you treat her like a queen, she will return the favor. Good luck.
2006-11-02 08:45:32 · answer #1 · answered by imahlah 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her what turns her on....and then make it happen. If she's not sure, then ask her if the two of you could start trying some new things and she could tell you whether she likes them or not. Learning TOGETHER what are the turn ons will get her in the mode!
Try things like: watching XXX together, tantric sex, fantasy role playing, bubble baths, etc...
There is a great book called "101 Quickies". This book is fun to explore together and gives great ideas for some FUN FUN times!
Good Luck!
2006-11-02 16:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by curiousRO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to answer this like you meant mood and not mode.
Why don't you find something else to occupy your mind and your time, and stop trying to change or fix her. There's nothing wrong with her. Wanting sex is your problem, not hers. If she doesn't want sex, that's her right. You are being selfish. You do not need sex like air to live, you shouldn't act as though you do it is very unattractive and a turn off. Exercise or learn a new hobby.
2006-11-02 16:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by HazelEyes 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try giving her the royal treatment like you use to when you were dating and trying to impress her!!! EXAMPLE: Take her on a romantic picnic(if cold outside) get rid of everyone in the house and lay a blanket on the floor in the living room and have your picnic..and hopefully etc after...smiles. Have fun!!!
2006-11-02 16:19:14 · answer #4 · answered by Jenah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Romance her. Nice dinner, candles,maybe a bubble bath for two with candles, then try a nice massage, it totally relaxes you and gets you in the mood, then some oral. Lots and lots of foreplay, and then some more foreplay.
2006-11-02 16:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to shower her with affection and not ask for sex. Rub her feet. Kiss her and make out with her. Feed her fruit. Let her make the first move. Even if that means you might not get any that same night.
2006-11-02 16:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by Butterfly Princess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing puts the spark back in the marriage be like a good shave from you try to leave your initial on her mons just to remind her whos pus*y that is then kiss your newly found hairless toy till she screams if you do it really well she may return the favor you know marriage is all about give and take.
good lick I mean luck ;-))
2006-11-02 16:22:34 · answer #7 · answered by Chillypepers 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
take her out to a nice dinner or something with a white table cloth cuz that means its really fancy buy her roses and stuff
2006-11-02 16:15:42 · answer #8 · answered by hollatata101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to make he want something, (as in when she wanted you to marry her.) Maybe you could set up a cookie jar and put donations in it when she pleases you.
2006-11-02 16:14:04 · answer #9 · answered by dano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋