ok i am 16, and i love this guy and anywayz its like my old question he is a RJ and he is like 24 and i dont know if its possible, becoz i am not a girl he can get and forget. i know if i love someone i love them alot and i dont know if he is committed? plus i dont want him just fooling around and just use me. this is the problem should i go for it or no and yes this question is realtion to my older question about i love a RJ and if age matters in love. i know him deeply, and still i am confused
2006-11-02 08:00:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
homey iam 16 as well and i have to say find someone around ur age because most of the tyme those older guyz just want one thing or they just gonna take advantage of you!!! I'm not here to say that you don't know what love is though because i am inlove myself and it's just aggravating to hear that we r to young to know what love is!!! You know what your feelingz are and if you feel you love him then that's fine. BUT i still recommend you to find someone younger because i see it all the time that my friends go out with guys in their twenty's and honestly Mentally, you guys would want different things out of a relationship because you guys are at dufferent stages in your life Most likely he will excpect more from you then you are willing to give into the ralationship!!! Just try to move on to someone ur age!!!
2006-11-02 08:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by Ms_Apple_Bttmz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well...this is so difficult to answer with just a yes or no. I will tell you that when I was your age I too was interested in a man that was 24. We dated for a short time before my parents put an end to the relationship because of his age. We both cared for each other but agreed that it was not worth the trouble of keeping our relationship going secretly. We then ran into each other several years later and our relationship started to rekindle. We dated for about a year and a half before we were married and are still married today. We have been married for almost 12 years. So I guess what I have to say is this. Let him go for now until you are older and have had time to live your teenage years. Then if later you find yourselves together, then enjoy each other and let life take you where it will, if not, then it is not meant to be. Just remember, what is meant to happen will happen and there is a reason for everything in life. Good luck and God Bless you.
2006-11-02 08:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, 16-yr-old! I'm 16 too. How can you fall in love at this age? You can have crushes, like I do. (I've a crush on an 18-yr-old guy)I think he's too old for you. 8 yrs! Seriously. At this age, you need someone younger. He must be much more mature than you. Age does matter, yaar. How will you feel if tomorrow he marries some other girl, and you come to know that he just thought of you as his sister? Look, don't feel bad, there are many guys out there, who are good for you, OK?
Do you think he likes you too? Guys, I feel, donot usually go for girls so much younger to them. Try to forget him. Its not easy, but is possible, nevertheless!
Think about it, you don't want to spoil your life, do you?
Good Luck!!!
2006-11-04 00:07:15 · answer #3 · answered by Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though a difference of eight years of age does not matter much in the Indian context, your own age is a problem. You must concentrate upon your studies and career as of now.
One requires a lot of maturity and emotional stability to decide on these matters and if that is not there, one tends to rely on information from other sources. The best source is your mother or sister.
I still maintain that you must concentrate on your studies.
2006-11-02 20:26:39 · answer #4 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you r just a girl, If u r 16,it's not matured age to take decision about ur love..it might be infatuation not the love and better u stay way and wait until u get matured..He is 24, lots of diff between u and him ..he shud know about ur age,he is Matured now, what he wants to do with a minor aged girl?? Is it love or lust?? Think about everything before u take steps ahead ...
2006-11-02 08:17:35 · answer #5 · answered by Diya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 16 are you sure you know what love is and any way he is 24 he is very older than you and may try to control you. your young there will be plenty boys you arent even old enough to go to a club yet wait a few years and if you still think you are in love then go for it! hes 24 what do you think he wants!!!!!!
2006-11-02 08:08:29 · answer #6 · answered by JAE' 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Kashish,
I am married to someone who is 9 yrs elder to me and we have a wonderful family. But if i would have met him when i was 16yrs and he 25yrs my parents would never let us go around. What i am trying to say is you are too young and he is old for you currently. Its not like things cannot work between you guys but i feel its best you both wait. Just let go of each other now. You enjoy your teens and let him do his stuff.
If you are ment to be together you guys will eventually land up together. So don't bother about it now. You might be in love with him but in the best interest of yours and his too i think you wait.
2006-11-02 17:52:55 · answer #7 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be thinking about love. First things first. Concentrate on your studies... It is a plus factor to obtain good education. Don't worry, if he really loves you, he will wait for you. Letting him wait , will also be a way to prove whether the feeling is mutual.
2006-11-02 22:22:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're deeply in love with a guy you've never met? Come one, now. You think you know him but you don't. You think age doesn't matter, but it does. You're doing a lot of thinking and not a lot of knowing. Stop putting yourself through this.
2006-11-02 08:20:43 · answer #9 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, you aren't in love. If you have to question whether he'll be faithful, you aren't in love nor do you know him as deeply as you think you do. And if you are confused, then you are a normal teenager - and you are NOT in love.
2006-11-02 08:14:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋