And she 42 years old and dont have no body. All her friends are younger then her. And she is making all of his very sick help me.
2006-11-02 07:49:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Some people put others down to make themselves feel better. She's probably not happy with life and does not love herself much and this reflects in her relationship with others
2006-11-02 07:57:59 · answer #1 · answered by model-me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just wants some of the attention because she is jealous. Give her positive attention. If you can......hook her up with a guy too........and if she's already in a relationship suggest she go to counseling or find someone else. When all else fails.....maybe something is wrong like a family issue.......just ask......that's what friends do. If you are a true friend then you will figure it out.......but if not then walk away......
2006-11-02 15:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by lcbwitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds jelous. If you really want her as a friend talk to her about her behaivor but be prepared because most people like this resuse to admit they are doing anythin wrong, and will not care about how they are hurting the other people. If you can live with out this "friendship" then you and anyone else who feels strongly about it should just ignore her, tell her she needs friends her own age.
2006-11-02 16:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by soccer2music 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's jealous and bitter. She didn't grow up when she should have so she has nothing in common with friends her own age and has to befriend people at a less mature stage of life. I have friends of all age, as one should, but every once in a while one of the older ones becomes a youth vampire and you have to pull back.
2006-11-02 16:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by misssomers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, all I have to do is tell you to drop her. You know the saying "Misery needs company" and obviously she needs some. Or if you feel sorry for her tell her you don't appreciate her talking down on yours and other people's relationships. Also tell her that it gets on your nerves, and if she continues to do it that she is going to have to find other friends elsewhere. There is no reason for you and other people in relationships to suffer just because she has no one.
xoxo
2006-11-02 15:54:40 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Chocol@t3 K!$$3$♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is insecure and maybe a little jealous of others relationships.It can get weary hanging with someone like that after awhile.Tell her you dont like it and to -please dont act like that around you.She will probably get upset but eventually if enough friends tell her she might wise up. Either that or you can order her up a Gigolo.
2006-11-02 15:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by bundyal38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she dampening the party you need to find new friends and find you someone that wakes up on theright side of the bed. Believe me there are really nice people out there.
2006-11-02 15:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by Olivia A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, stay away from her. If you don't her negative influence will start to rub off on you without you even being able to tell. Run! Really, these types are not good for you.
2006-11-02 15:51:58 · answer #8 · answered by favrd1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does it because she is jealous....explain to her that she is upsetting eveyone, and if she continues, then you wont be able to hang out anymore. Nobody likes to be put down, especially if they are happy in their relationship.
Maybe help her find someone.....a blind date or something...or ...maybe she just needs ...uuummm some. (sorry, didn't know how else to say it)
Good Luck !!!
2006-11-02 15:55:54 · answer #9 · answered by lisa46151 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats what we hoodrats call a "hater" :
definition: someone who always talks about others and their situations because they are 1)lonely 2)jealous 3)envious 4)doesnt have what that person has 5)low self-esteem
2006-11-02 15:53:33 · answer #10 · answered by yagurlbubblez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋