been see to women very differently.
1 is not so good looking but i get on really well with her, have known her for years and is a right goer. The other is a right looker with great job but havent known her long, not such a goer but a proper bird. i get on well with her to. Now what do i do?
Which 1 do i go for (The goer or the proper bird)?
2006-11-02 07:47:24 · 36 answers · asked by robashdown2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go with the one u are most compatible with.
2006-11-02 07:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex, as women say is not everything but to me it is of great importance in a relationship, together with all other items and feelings, when the proper bird gets lazy you do need these goers to fall back on. to find a looker with a goer mentality is easy until they get lazy. so keep all of the balls in the air and keep the best of both worlds, when they get to mid 40s swap them for 2 20s ish and have no conscience.
I have been married for 35 years and wasted the last 20 years with a lousy sex life which is now nil. I am starved 56 and faithful but to what? you can only be faithful if all is well. You can only cheat if you are playing the game, but with me there is no game.
I now know what a mid-life crisis is, It's when the woman stops the sex and leaves the partner no choice but to go out and find some other lady to help him through his life and the hope that his new partner benefits from the contact, who knows.
2006-11-02 09:03:41 · answer #2 · answered by ?Master 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the first place...what is a "goer" ?..and to me...a proper bird..is a chicken...turkey or duck......
You dont deserve either one of them......dating 2 women at one time and then thinking you can just choose whichever one is wrong. Do they know your seeing the other one?
Learn how to speak and spell..then come back and ask a "proper" question.
2006-11-02 07:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by lisa46151 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dear first off, looks doesn't make a person its the personality that makes the person. It's whats inside a person that determine who and what they are. So many people want to choose by the beauty or not so beautiful features about a person when truly that doesn't count. You can be not so good looking and have the most wonderful warm personality and be a beautiful person on the inside. On the other hand you can be very beautiful as far as looks goes and be very ugly on the inside. So if I were you I would choose the one who's the most beautiful on the inside of their heart. Hope this advice helps you.
2006-11-02 08:06:49 · answer #4 · answered by Wendy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy c**p! Are you for real? 'goer' 'proper bird' And what the hell kinda women are hanging out with you? Jeez, makes you appreciate who you are when you see this kinda stuff!
2006-11-02 10:26:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you can show some respect for women maybe you wont need to ask such a pathetic and sexist question. Its a shame people like you waste space on this site. And I only answered this question to tell you youre a disgrace.
2006-11-02 07:52:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on what one youy really have more feelings for be she a goer or not its all down to how u feel and what one u can see spending life and serious time with then you will hav answer if it turns out to be any of these two
2006-11-02 07:57:00 · answer #7 · answered by sm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't choose someone just because she's "good for you." Choose someone who is good with you, who you enjoy spending time with. I'm not quite sure what a goer is; we American's don't say that.
2006-11-02 07:51:04 · answer #8 · answered by sarcastro1976 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The goer, no the bird, no wait...neither, or both...why choose? There is no right answer, so you decide.
2006-11-02 07:56:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first one, looks fade and the good looking one with a job.
She isn't around for the long haul. Better someone you get along with. No matter how good looking they are if their a ***** life is tough.
2006-11-02 07:52:10 · answer #10 · answered by butch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
goer? proper bird? what the hell language are you speaking?
2006-11-02 07:52:24 · answer #11 · answered by General P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋