How do you know when your ready to get married. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We have a 3 year old son. I love him with all my heart. He's the light in my life. I find myself daydreaming about our wedding day. The dress, the flowers, the walk to him, the vows, the 1st song we dance to as husband and wife, Our honeymoon. All these things and more. I feel like I'm ready, this is the man I wanna the rest of my life with. No other will do. I know he loves me and he tells me he wants to marry me. Are we ready to get married? Is there any signs?
2006-11-02 07:13:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like you have answered your own question. You DO know! You have just said so. You mentioned all of the right 'signs'....Just set a date now, and stay in love with this wonderful guy and be happy!! Good luck.
2006-11-02 07:17:26 · answer #1 · answered by Nisey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already have a child with this man yall are probably living the married life together already just without the ring and the whole wedding thing if a guy knows if can have you as his wife without you actually being his wife he is not going to be in a hurry to get married talk to him and tell him that you want the real thing
2006-11-02 07:17:52 · answer #2 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women really do get this idealized romantic dream with the wedding that I just don't get.
You already have the family since you have a 3 year old with this man. How about putting all this energy into your future home, retirement and elope than the big hoohaa of a fancy wedding.
How you treat each other every day says more about your love than a wedding.
2006-11-02 07:55:51 · answer #3 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the big sign is your son. I understand that things happen, and maybe you weren't ready to get married when he was born, but now it's time. If you intend to stay together and raise your son together, you should make it official. Good luck.
2006-11-02 07:16:07 · answer #4 · answered by EchoCharlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes girl...i hear wedding bells coming ur way!lol If you cant see urself or even imagine urself with anyone else then he's definately the ONE for u.. Especially since he feels the same..I'm glad u've found ur guy..mine got lost in the mail somewhere.lol Well good luck on ur decision!
2006-11-02 07:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a lot more than the wedding day. It's the "till death do us part" that you need to make sure that you are ready for.
2006-11-02 07:17:24 · answer #6 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are living together and have a son then you are almost there. All you are lacking is a marriage certificate. Living together is not really different then being married so I would say go for it.
2006-11-02 07:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been with him 5 years, have a 3 year old son, and you don't know if the time is right. Pathetic!!!!
2006-11-02 07:16:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all the signs are there except for the ring and vows but the commitment is most importantg part ya should just go and confirm it legally
2006-11-02 07:16:27 · answer #9 · answered by Bud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have been married over three years ago ;) Question is, how old are you? Do you have your education? Are you ready to commit to being his wife forever?
2006-11-02 07:16:27 · answer #10 · answered by shojo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋