Can u ever get away from all the haters, liers, rumors, people who talk about you and care what people think?
2006-11-02 06:59:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You probably can't get away from them but you can be protected from them where their words have no longer an effect on you. It called walking in love and being in that secret place with Christ Jesus.
2006-11-02 07:03:06 · answer #1 · answered by egg_sammash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a truthful person and true to who you are...that means your not trying to remember what you told each different person, then who cares what "those" folks say. if they are really getting to you, go to someone in authority and make some waves...but be true to YOU. If you are in a work environment...those "haters" would be in violation of sexual harassment laws. If you are in a school environment, then I'm sure there is at least a policy or minimum standard that they are not adhering to and someone in authority should make it right.
bottom line is do what is right and the "haters" are the ones that look foolish, not you.
2006-11-02 15:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by Cadman1965 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, they're everywhere. You have haters in school, liars in college, rumors at work, and people who talk about you all over town. The thing you have to do is to learn how to pick friends, have boundaries so that you don't allow these people into your life, recognize them for who they are, and be savvy enough to live happily around them by avoiding their influences.
2006-11-02 15:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, you can't get away from that. There's always going to be haters, liars, gossipy people and people that talk about you. But you know what? who cares!!? they probably hate you and talk about you 'cause they're jealous. Don't pay attention. It's not worth it. Be happy, live your life at the fullest, and don't give those people the importance and attention they're trying to get. You're smarter than them :)
2006-11-02 15:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by Latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO that is just part of life you have to learn to turn all that negativity into motivation when I hear someone talk about me I just think of it as jealousy most of the time when someone talks about you it is because they are jealous of you as far as your looks or they want something you have in almost 100% of the time the people that do all the talking are not happy with themselves
2006-11-02 15:12:25 · answer #5 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because people have issues and like to take them out on other people. People are jealous and want to bring other down. It's sad. Just be confident and strong and have a positive outlook on life. People will respect you ,and those who don't, brush them off.
2006-11-02 15:03:59 · answer #6 · answered by GK2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter where you are their always there somewhere around. You just get better at dealing with those types of people as time goes by. All you have to do is worry about you and your own and that's all that should matter.
2006-11-02 15:03:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never gonna go away. Just realize that you are who you are and be confident in yourself and DON'T always care about what people say.
2006-11-02 15:02:35 · answer #8 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably can't get away from them but you dont have to give them the satisfaction of knowing they are getting to you. Rub it in their faces and hold your head up high. If they see they are getting to you..they will continue to hate, lie, spread rumors, etc. Stand up for yourself and give THEM your asss to kiss. Smoochies.
2006-11-02 15:04:30 · answer #9 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very good question.. I would like to know myself.. I think things would be akward if this happened... Then who would they have to talk to about thier problems and having someone help them?
2006-11-02 15:01:45 · answer #10 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋