Am i insecure just because I am cautious of my relationship. It's not like i be nagging all the time and accusing my man of cheating on me. I trust him but only to a certain instinct. I love him but for some reason deep in my heart and mind i feel that i cant trust him enough to where i know he wont ever cheat on me. I feel like he is not cheating now but if he had a chance he would. I dont ever bring it up to him, i keep it to myself to avoid a arguement. Only because he thinks i am insecure and he be acting paranoid this feeling i have remains. I try not to expect the worst like thinking our relationship will end. But i cant help but think of the negative known as pessimistic. Am i too insecure or what.
((Advice on what to do, please.)) thankyou
2006-11-02 06:50:19 · 9 answers · asked by Tbaby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes, you are being insecure. Stop it before you lose him.
2006-11-02 06:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by bostonchick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes u definitely are insecure, however the very fact that you have realized this is a step in the right direction. now firstly you need to figure out what makes you insecure (maybe he is more attractive, or maybe he has more friends or maybe u dont have enough friends) if you had a life of your own then most of the insecurities would not surface. Empty minds a devils work. Try keeping yourself occupied, if u dont want to work thats fine, u can do other things, voluntary work with kids etc, cooking, embroidery, pottery whatever. However, i feel you should also talk to him about it, get it off your chest so to speak
2006-11-02 07:12:16 · answer #2 · answered by atts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone and I mean everyone to some degree has insecurities .You need to cheer up and not dwell on the negative WHAT IF factor .. That in itself will ruin a relationship ...He comes home to you ,he obviously loves you and if you accuse him he could take the idea Hey if I am accussed of it I may as well do it ...Don't look for the negative when YOU have the positive ...Good Luck!!
2006-11-02 06:57:52 · answer #3 · answered by southernn_sky_2020 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is do you like yourself? If you did you would have more confidence in your significant other. If he is a cheater and a bad person.....Get rid of him. If your that paranoid look into yourself. Are you a cheater or a bad person? Usually if you feel this way towards someone else it is only your own guilt. I hope this isn't the case. but hey good luck anyway with it.
2006-11-02 06:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by nonya 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try not to dwell... you don't say if you've been hurt in the past - or if you've been exposed to cheaters, people you don't trust.. .that will follow in your personal relationships... if you don't talk about it with him however that's not good either because you are ultimately creating a wall between you and him... Trust is MAJOR if you cannot trust him you need to let him know and don't 'argue' if he's mature and loves you he will be able to talk to you about it... remember don't dwell on it and try to enjoy the happiness this man brings you .. that should be your focus..
2006-11-02 06:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by thenakats 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being cautious is in no way insecure, their are more people in the world just like yourself that are exactly the same, and are married or ltr's.
2006-11-02 07:08:01 · answer #6 · answered by Poker Face 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to go to counseling and work through your problems because if you are trying to tell him where he can and can't go and vice versa things will not work out between the two of you. Love is something that is not jealous or unkind trusting and respected
2006-11-02 06:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by M J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no person is familiar with notwithstanding god(s)/(ess)(es) are doing up there. so its human nature to objective to "comfortable up" to whomever they think of is in value. possibly Gods are busy, or are trying out people, punishing, or are sitting returned for a giggle. possibly this incredibly is hell and praying is a subcocious type of repenting. it incredibly is all approximately interpretation, veiw factor, and desires.i in my view think of it incredibly is the persons worshipping that have subconcious lack of self belief. As for God's being extremely, they exist or dont, doesnt rather remember. incredibly of residing sturdy for a extra helpful afterlife, i perfer to stay sturdy using fact i decide to for the persons around me. i wish that helps you out :)
2016-10-21 03:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are insecure
2006-11-02 06:52:40 · answer #9 · answered by ya girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋