but im married and he's not interested. What can i do????
2006-11-02 06:32:10 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not much, exept you look for TWO new players
2006-11-02 06:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by Starlight 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It really has a lot to do with whether you are tryingto bring another male in the picture or a female. Men tend to be more comfortable when they are the dominant male and don't have to worry about being compared to someone else in the bedroom department. Some men are not comfortable with sharing their wives with other men or women, cherish that if this is your case. He is committed to you!! How Great does that make you feel?! You should NEVER go behind your husbands back to do this with another couple though. Omition is betrayal, and would more than likely be your ultimate demise if and when he finds out. That is not a good foundation for a marriage.
2006-11-02 06:37:18 · answer #2 · answered by Amber L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I totally feel your pain ... my man isn't really into sharing at all either ... strange how most men want a threesome ... but yes there are guys out there that love being with one girl and one girl only ... until I get him to truly open up and let me play with some girls .. I'm stuck with watching lots and lots of pornos and taking trip after trip to the Strip Clubs with him ... I get to watch but no playing .. sometimes it's like a huge tease - but I take it all out on him when we get home ... I think if I found the perfect girl to experience it with him he'll have fun .. I haven't been with another woman in over a year & 1/2 ... so I'm getting really antsy ... lol ... if I knew the answer to your question ... I wouldn't be in the same boat as you .. lol .. good luck
2006-11-02 06:59:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not allot other than respect his wishes. If he isn't totally opposed to it you may mention it once in awhile or bring it up as a fantasy during sex. That alone may be enough for you. You can also have him join you on the computer and read what others have to say on The Swingers Board (link below). There is allot of great information there about what you are fantasizing about. Check out the FAQ section first.
2006-11-02 08:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would investigate wether or not he is gay. If it is you and another woman, why the hell wouldnt he! If it is you two and another dude, If he isnt bi or even curiouse then that makes sense. Be careful, Iwas married and had a threesome and once we did it was the begining of the end!
2006-11-02 06:36:37 · answer #5 · answered by teenypurplebinky 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you Male or Female? Two guys, Two girls, another couple?
You need to provide more information and what you expect
out of a threesome????????
2006-11-02 07:06:38 · answer #6 · answered by driver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THINK ABOUT IT
1) Have you got a third person and if yes does it cost.
2) Will it wreck your relationship
3) Do you know how to.
4) Have you got enough room.
If they're all yes except 2) then go for it!!
2006-11-02 06:39:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If one partner isn't sure about it, don't do it. It will hurt the relationship. Maybe you could turn him on to some lesbian porn and see what he says about that. Or ask him how he would feel about you being with one of your friends. Maybe he will voluntarily join in!!!
2006-11-02 06:39:44 · answer #8 · answered by deliannathaniel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a threesome.....damn most men wouldn't pass that up...what kind of threesome another man or woman......
2006-11-02 06:36:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to often is the guy not interested. tell him he can sit back and watch and you go find two others who ARE interested
2006-11-02 08:44:12 · answer #10 · answered by mj_jll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question to you is why do you have to have this "want". Is it really worth that much to you or is it just a bid for attention? Why would you be so selfish as to only consider yourself? Just live with it as a fantasy that you don't have to fulfull.
2006-11-02 06:56:11 · answer #11 · answered by Dovie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋