I am trying to get my wife in the mood. I was thinking of buying her something sexy to wear under her clothes (for me! and her?) hide the lingerie in the house then leave her a note to find the gift. Then go out for a nice dinner, romance her then go for a short walk around town. If this happened to you, would you be turned on and what part would turn you on the most? Would you change anything? I dont think like a female, so I need some advice-comments to make this perfect.
2006-11-02 06:23:37 · 19 answers · asked by aubreytaegan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
do something from your heart, this is romantic and i would prolly cry if my bf would be sweet like this. but do like a movie or something rose petals in the bathtub or leading upstairs with candles. write her a poem of why u love her. add something you dont buy, (love str8 from your heart) i hope this helps a bit, and she is a lucky woman to have a man to be sweet like that!
2006-11-02 06:26:54 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Dude- your over-thinking it. Look, the lingerie is a nice touch, and the walk is ok assuming you don't live in Alaska. But try this and see what happens. Instead of spending a ton of bucks on dinner out, why not cook a nice romantic dinner yourself? Set a few candles on the table and voila, you've saved $50-$60. Next, after dinner, draw a nice warm bubble-bath for her to relax in. While she's relaxing away, tie one end of a string or piece of yarn to the doorknob with a note that says follow me.
Along the way, put notes of important things you two have shared. First date, favorite song, first kiss, etc. By the time she reaches the end of the string (which I would hope would be longer than 3 feet) you could have desert ready at the table and have the lingerie wrapped in a box under help plate.
It's allot of hard work, true, but think of the reward?
2006-11-02 06:32:54 · answer #2 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-23 18:22:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, I'm don't feel sexy in 'sexy' lingerie. So that wouldn't work for me.
The dinner would work, the romance. I am really, REALLY turned on by kissing. Sometimes guys are too quick to jump on to other things and forget that the simplest display of affection can be the most pleasureable experience for a woman. If my husband would spend more time focusing on my lips, he would be getting it all the time.
Hmmm. . .funny how some of us got a thumbs down for answering this question.
2006-11-02 06:28:36 · answer #4 · answered by Shayna 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sounds really nice but I'd say forget the dinner....cook a really romantic dinner at home...have a picnic in the living room surrounded by candles and romantic music....towards the end of dinner go run a hot as you can stand bubble bath, with candles and good smelling oils, that turns us on, break up some rose petals and put in the bath if you can....undress your woman feeling every inch of her body and put her in the bath-tub.....excuse yourself and go into the kitchen and bring on the liquor.....some hennessy or whatever you guys drink.....toast to her adding how much she means to you and how much you love her and all that.....get in the tub and wash her all over...use your hands as towels.....after all this proceed to the bedroom and handle your business.....hope this helps....
2006-11-02 08:21:18 · answer #5 · answered by girlegyrl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Trying to get your wife in the mood for what exactly? Sex? Feel that she's loosing interest in you?
All that you wrote is super romantic... But, the most you can do is be very affectionate with her... caress her face and look her deep into her eyes and tell her you love her (and MEAN IT)... then kiss her oh so tenderly, nibble gently her lips... and make her feel all the passion and lust you feel for her. And take your time to give her the best oral sex you had ever given her...
Don't just do this one night... do it frequently... spontaneously... and that might improve her mood.
2006-11-02 06:44:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess it's all about what you say during dinner. Say all the things that would make her smile, acknowledge and appreciate all the things she has done for you she would be really happy. tell her that you have a special gift for her at home that will get her excited and anxious. Then when it gets down to the dirty, do the things she really enjoys, foreplay, kissing and all that stuff.
2006-11-02 06:30:50 · answer #7 · answered by Wibble 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why can't she get in the mood? Anyways....ok finding the lingerie thing is cute, Everything sounds fine, it's what happens in the bedroom that matters....ok first of all it's all about her ok? When you get home you should have rose petals all over the bed, then pick her up While she has the lingerie on lay her on the bed and kiss her EVERYWHERE, continue with oral sex and let it go from there.....Have fun and good luck
2006-11-02 06:28:18 · answer #8 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think i wouldn't be turn on...
I would probably be more tired after the dinner,romance & walk around town...
Maybe just a romantic bath together with some jasmine,candles & music will do the trick.
2006-11-02 06:27:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
All very good, dude. I would suggest surprising her a few days before with flowers for no reason. Then another day maybe a little present. Building up anticipation help a lot to.
Good luck to you.
2006-11-02 06:42:35 · answer #10 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋