My best friend just recently moved to San Diego in the middle of the school year, and before she left, she told me she'd be back after the Thanksgiving weekend for vacation reasons. But her friends that hate me, said she won't be coming back. I don't know who to believe or what to do. I trust my best friend, but I don't know if she just said it was for vacation because she didn't want me to feel bad. I don't know what to do.
2006-11-02 06:11:22 · 14 answers · asked by j s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
After reading the answers here I believe some of you are misinterperating my question, I had meant; 'She said she was going to San Diego for vacation'
2006-11-02 07:05:35 · update #1
She may have every intention of coming back, but something could happen & she may not be able to. If she's with her parents their plans could change. Don't think she's lying if she doesn't make it back.
Do you have a way to get in touch with her? A cell number, text, e-mail, IM...?
2006-11-02 06:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend isn't old enough to drive or travel alone, or her parents don't have a reason to return to your area, then she may not be able to visit. If she's in school, she may not be able to leave for a vacation until the Christmas break.
Her friends might be correct, but the reason she isn't coming back could be out of her control and have nothing to do with you.
2006-11-02 14:16:15 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear. You are taking the words of these girls that don't like you at all. Why would you even bother to waste your time to talk to them or even listen to what they have to say? Its November the 2nd and its only 3 weeks away from Thanksgiving. You will see for yourself who to believe. There is nothing you can do to ensure the truth at this time, but to just wait and see. Actions speak alot louder then words. Please, don't waiste any more time on those girls that you know don't like you anyway. She will be there when she said she would be. I am sure she still has family where you are. Blessed be ............................. don't worry so much. She is YOUR best friend.
2006-11-02 14:19:10 · answer #3 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your best friend and you haven't had any problems with one another recently, then you have no reason not to believe her. Never trust a person who hates you, and never even talk to them much less listen to what they have to say. I call them emotional vampires, they just want to suck all of the positive energy from you! Put a cross on those haters and call it a day.
2006-11-02 14:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by goodgirlabout2gobad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just believe me. Get yourself some new friends. it's rare that best friends last when they move away, especially at your age. Start looking for some other friends near to where you live. if it's hard at school, then join a club or something. As for her other friends, just ignore them. Not, worth and it spring to mind.
if she comes, great, if not, you'll find someone else to confide in. Honestly you will.
2006-11-02 14:19:02 · answer #5 · answered by Susie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think her returning for a visit is really dependent on what her parents say.
Why listen to people who don't like you?
call her up and ask her when she will be in town.
2006-11-02 14:13:44 · answer #6 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait and see. don't be mean to her or cut her off or nothing like that. if she continues to call you and keep in touch with you then leave things the way they are. you will eventually see who was telling the truth
2006-11-02 14:31:16 · answer #7 · answered by chrisarea_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you even consider believing people that don't like you over someone that you say is your best friend???? i would definitely stop listening to those other people and believe what your friend says!!!!
2006-11-02 14:20:08 · answer #8 · answered by polarbaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would listen to your best friend. If she said she will be back, she will be back.
2006-11-02 14:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by bostonchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree call her. ask her ur self thats the only wau to know for sure
2006-11-02 14:17:07 · answer #10 · answered by alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋