2006-11-02 06:04:30 · 31 answers · asked by anrisi2004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
4-5 times a week. The secret is to take a short nap (30 min) with your kid (when you are tucking them in). This will refresh you. Then shower, watch some TV together, a cup of wine helps...so you are in the mood to be intimate.
2006-11-02 06:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by Student 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intimate or sex. Not the same. You need to make sure that you have lots of intimacy without sex. Lots of flirting, touching, kissing, i love yous, cuddles with out sex.
Put as much effort into your jobs/kids and put it into your relationship. Gonna be hard work but well worth it in the long run.
Start a date night, and keep it no exceptions. Take time away just for the two of you. Sounds like your in the same rut as most with mortage, car payments kids and all that stuff.
Read some stuff on relationships, how to improve. You both must participate though. It takes both of you
2006-11-02 06:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by SRC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 2 boys, I am not married but have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and we live together. We have sex at least 5-6 times per week. I should also add that I am obsessive compulsive when it comes to my household, I keep a very clean house and keep my laundry done and I also sit down with my kids for homework every night, although we do eat take out a lot. My boyfriend helps here and there but they are my kids so I don't expect much from him. My kids are 13 and 9. I find that sex is very relaxing, I sleep like a baby afterwards, sometimes I don't feel like doing it when I get in bed (around 10 p.m.) but he usually works me up and then I am into it. If you don't feel like having sex you might want to try and get more sleep or if you are on birth control this could also lower your sex drive as well as many other medications
2006-11-02 06:11:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on the couple. Once children enter the marriage then the frequency of sex goes down to non-existent. If the couple wants to have more sex then both will need to arrange times to have them...like a date night where the kids get a baby sitter or the children are sent off to a friend or family. It will take communication and coordination and a little planning and organizing in order for that to happen.
2006-11-02 06:18:35 · answer #4 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually they make time for that after the children go to sleep. My husband and I work 40+ hours a week and we have children. We make the time so that way we still have our "intimate moments" together. It usually is about three x's a week.
2006-11-02 06:06:51 · answer #5 · answered by mshellrosie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As often as you both can find the time for it. If that is only once a week or once a month then that is fine if it satisfies you both. Jobs and Kids are exhausting. Try to make time for each other.
2006-11-02 06:15:12 · answer #6 · answered by AVA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As often as possible under the circumstances. Try getting a babysitter at least once a month so you can have a real date and some quiet time together. Make it a permanent date night.
2006-11-02 06:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
married for 17yrs. have 1 child 16 and 1 thats 14. and the answer is not enough..lol we are either too tired or have a house full.. but we try to have it about 2 times a week.
2006-11-02 06:14:55 · answer #8 · answered by kitttkat2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practically, a couple times a week. They will both be tired, but there's nothing like going to sleep intimacy. Or the waking up to face the world kind.
2006-11-02 06:11:31 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 or 3 times per week
2006-11-02 06:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋