Two days ago, my class had a test. I got 16 out of 20 and a girl got the same grade with me. For a wrong communication i told my mother that she got 11 out of 20 and my mother told her mother about that. Then, that girl called me and asked me about that. I explained her about the misunderstanding and all was ok again. But i heard today that she doesn't like me at all and when i say her hi, she does the same thing, but then she says bad things about me and i feel bethrayed because i said sorry and i started to hate her. What can i do? I mean, she told that in every person and i feel embaraced.
2006-11-02 06:01:32 · 10 answers · asked by Melany 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You wouldn't feel embarassed if you had told the truth in the first place!! Let this be a lesson to you....tell the truth instead of trying to make someone else look bad because it'll ALWAYS come back to bite you in the butt!! And learn to spell.
2006-11-02 06:10:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
The trouble with our society today is that noone wants to take time to communicate their thoughts and feelings. Actions are misinterpreted and prejudgments rule the day. Why don't you ask this girl whether she would agree to meet with you to discuss what happened and what your feelings are about the whole thing. That is the best way to handle any situation. If her actions remain the same, you have lost nothing. However, if the two of you come to a realization about what happened, perhaps you can resolve your differences.
2006-11-02 14:12:49 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin B 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
YOu did everything right by apoligizing. It took a lot of courage to admit you made a simple mistake and if that girl treats you badly after you have apologized, then she wasn't a good friend to begin with. A true friend will stick by you no matter what mistakes one makes. If you were my friend, I would have told you that it was okay and that I knew you didnt' mean anything bad. Your friend needs to wake up before the friendship disolves into nothing. My best of luck to you. Don't let this eat away at you, you deserve to be treated with respect.
2006-11-02 14:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
okay, so I thought this situation you were about to explain was LIFE THREATENING. Dang, over some miscommunication about grades. Yep, incorrect gossip, but heck life goes on. Don't let that keep you from growing, progressing and changing. If that keeps her in a stalemate, she will suffer. 60 years when she sitting in her rocking chair she will probably be telling her grandchildren about it. You will be skiing the Alps, climbing Mt. Everest, swimming the English Channel, while she let old age and vengence creep up on her.
2006-11-02 14:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just like that. Just don't worry about her you don't need to be her friend. She sounds like the kind of person who loves to start drama and talk about people. I have dealt with the same kind of thing. My advice to you is to just be friendly like keep saying hi,(don't be over the top about it just keep it simple) and also don't give her anything to say about you. She will move on to someone who will react to her (someone hating her or talking back) and you can stop worrying about her.
2006-11-02 14:13:35 · answer #5 · answered by ayyyyyyyyohhh 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
honestly it's not the end of the world. You'll go through life and lots of people will like you and hate you later. You can't help that they are over sensitive and so negative they can't accept an appology. You did what you could. Don't let it get to you.
2006-11-02 14:09:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Be your wonderful, cheerful self to everyone you see. Say hi to everyone you know and don't mention this girl or what happened to anyone. If someone asks you about it you tell them you don't understand why she is saying things about you and you would rather just forget about it. That will make you someone who everyone likes to talks with and be arouond because you don't say bad things about people, even if they do about you. Everyone will wonder why someone would ever say something bad about you.
2006-11-02 14:12:56 · answer #7 · answered by Liligirl 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You may just have to avoid her for a while and let it blow over.. It'll be better later...
2006-11-02 14:07:37 · answer #8 · answered by xxxcariooo 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You know what stargirl? Theres nothing to do. Its just the type of person she is. So just live life. suck it up.
2006-11-02 14:05:16 · answer #9 · answered by dvdatlas 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why do you just be mean back to her. You dont have to say your sorry. Dont waste your time on stupid people.
2006-11-02 14:05:37 · answer #10 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 1⤊ 5⤋