My best friend told my crush that i liked him! and now he treats me different! what should i do?!!!? Should i talk to him again?
2006-11-02 06:00:08 · 19 answers · asked by munchy_101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am 14yrs. old and in High School
2006-11-02 06:07:51 · update #1
Yeah u should talk to him, you cant avoid him forever! Tell him how you feel even though he already knows....trust me....I know what I'm saying from PAST EXPERIENCES
2006-11-02 06:02:06 · answer #1 · answered by Big-Ben 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, with best friends like that, who needs enemies. Then again, why didn't you tell him. Why do most women use a second to do the job for her? It doesn't make sense and besides that it could be a "lethal weapon" for you, because, God knows what or how she told him. Now if you would of told him yourself, he probably would of taken it in a different way and with more respect and further more, you would of had the chance to know how he feels about you whatever the situation would of been and then you would of known where you stand. Now, what you have to do (or i would do) is whenever you have a chance and he's alone, talk to him, ask him why has he changed. Tell him if it's because of the "crush" thing, it's not a problem and that it's also not a reason to act different and feel threaten by the issue. Show him you are a self secure and mature girl and even in a humor way tell him "it's not that your planing to harass him". And of course, you will know if he feels the same as you. If you see no reaction, he doesn't, and then just run along and look somewhere else. I believe there is one thing which is the most important thing a women should always have present, "her dignity". So good luck
2006-11-02 14:18:39 · answer #2 · answered by ladydi9red 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Talk to him. In fact take him aside and throw some facts and figures like ' on average girls have between 60 and 900 crushes in their teens' (not that cause i made it up but sure you'll find some facts if you google it - or ask on here) and then just tell him yes, you do have a crush and if he'd like to reciprocate, he'd be more than welcome but if he wouldn't then that's fine too because tell him you're bound to move on (according to the statistics) fairly soon and then he won't have to feel awkward any more.
I think he'll find it quite sexy and by you being so straight and grown up about it, if he carries on treating you differently, it'll be him feeling stupid, not you.
2006-11-02 14:07:45 · answer #3 · answered by Susie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does he treat u better like he would like to get together?
Or is it like u are not for him?
If it's like hea babe than go up and talk to him and straighten
it out and explain: hey I happenened to let my friend know that
u are really cute and was wondering if u would like to go out
or just hang out?
Or if its bad- then go up to him and tell him your so called friend just told u a piece of gossip and that was u and what she did and
say I'm sorry that she embarrased you. Blame it on your friend
and see where it goes then later u can confess after u are an item!
2006-11-02 14:07:46 · answer #4 · answered by Nanniekc 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does he treat you better or not as good...both are different. If he treats you not as good...leave hiim and find someone who will value you for all of the things that you can bring to a relationship. Tell your best friend that she is a coniving *****...and butt out.
2006-11-02 14:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are not old enough or mature enough to talk to a boy then you need to quit worrying about crushes and go back to playing with dolls.
2006-11-02 14:02:05 · answer #6 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well u can talk to him but how is he treating u different. Just tell him it's no big deal, even if it is it sounds to me like you'll have to move on
2006-11-02 14:02:30 · answer #7 · answered by do you know me? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you should talk to him. How does he treat you different. Maybe he sees that there might be a spark there.
2006-11-02 14:03:38 · answer #8 · answered by ajhines8 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HECK YA!!! Talk to him girl!! If he doesnt feel the same way who cares!! At least it is out there and he knows now. If he acts dif may be it is because he feels the same way and now doesnt know how to act in front of you!! If he doesnt feel the same, you guys can still be friends...make that clear to him!!
2006-11-02 14:02:59 · answer #9 · answered by clawbeaja 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its one of those things that happens. i say u should think about how old u are and if its worth it. if u cant see urself living forever with him then tell him that u just want to be freinds and get over him.
2006-11-02 14:04:57 · answer #10 · answered by alex 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋