I broke up w/ my gf and I was a d*ck, now I want her back. How can I convince her I'm sorry and that I won't hurt her again?
2006-11-02 05:57:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Well, my husband was in the same boat earlier this week we were separating. He started with flowers ( red roses ) and brought me some special cookies from Cookies Creation. Then we sat down and talked it out. We are now both at home again and trying. I liked that he actually thought about my needs instead of just his. Any type of small gift will show her that you do care...be sure to say a lot of I am sorry's. Good luck.
2006-11-02 06:21:36 · answer #1 · answered by ♥just me♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how bad you treated her. See girls think more on feelings and if they really loved you then, more than likely she'll take you back. But if the hurt was so bad that she fell out of love with you it could be a factor that she may not want you back. To me, if someone brokeup with me, regardless of the reason...I don't ever go back because it's all a part of life and how you find the right person. Maybe all you need is to really think about just moving on without her. You should at least tell her that you were wrong for doing what you did to her and you realize that now. It'll make you a better person and even a better boyfriend to someone you truly care about in the future. Hope this helps, hun! GOOD LUCK!
~BattleAngel~
2006-11-02 14:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by BattleAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her, show her. Send her flowers at her job. Send her cards and little things that she likes. Don't ask for her back right away, she'll just think you're doing all that nice stuff JUST to get her back, not because you really care. Treat her the way you should have treated her in the first place. Good luck!
2006-11-02 14:02:33 · answer #3 · answered by Esmireldarine 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go over to her home. Sit face to face and tell her how you feel. You were sorry and wrong. Using the word WRONG will get you far.....
Tell her you love her and want to spend the rest of your life with her. That should do it unless she has already found someone. Better hurry.
2006-11-02 14:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flowers and sweet talk are a good start, but a sincere apology is a definite.
2006-11-02 14:03:07 · answer #5 · answered by Momma Jo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look into her eyes and tell her how you feel about her. Tell her how much you care about her, and apologize for how you acted. Be honest and sincere. If she still has feelings for you, she will probably give you another chance.
2006-11-02 14:04:41 · answer #6 · answered by newmum06 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't...you've done enough, it is very possible that you are just worried she will move on without you and be fine with it, then you will get her back realize, " yeah hmm I still don't want her" Then you will be back on Y! Answers asking how to get rid of this poor girl.
2006-11-02 14:01:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Only time and a lot of sucking up will work.
2006-11-02 16:15:55 · answer #8 · answered by Pepper's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy.
2006-11-02 14:00:27 · answer #9 · answered by E.B. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if she truely loves u and u truely love her then all u have to do is tell her sincerely. tell her if she needs time to think about it then u will wait for her. whats meant to be cant be stopped.
2006-11-02 14:03:46 · answer #10 · answered by special 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋