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My friend called me and told me she found her husband in bed with his co-worker. Shes asking me for help but I dont really know what to tell her to do. Help me please???

2006-11-02 05:36:14 · 25 answers · asked by Nikki 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

25 answers

Now is the time to be supportive as much as possible. Offer her to spend a couple of nights at your place until things settle down and she calms down a bit. Tell her that you will stand by her all the way through whatever she decides to do.
Be comforting and not judgemental and most importantly be a good listener!

2006-11-02 05:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

All you can tell her is that you will be there for her and hold her when she cries.

Don't say anything negative because there just might be the chance that she'll take the pig back and then you'll look like the bad guy for saying all those mean and nasty things about her husband.

2006-11-02 13:38:36 · answer #2 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 2 0

Say nothing. You never know what will happen just listen and tell her you will be there for support no matter what. She will go through alot of emotions at this time, let her work through it and don't ever tell her to "get over it", "don't say anything" or "you have to stop being angry" In time she will find her way, just be her friend

2006-11-02 13:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by brokenheartsyndrome 4 · 0 0

You should be there for her. And tell her she needs to decide if she is willing to forgive him for this and get on with their lives. She should take her time and think this through before she makes a decision. She should also talk to him and find out why he was with another woman. Maybe your friend was not taking care of home and he was out looking for what he was missing.

2006-11-02 13:46:15 · answer #4 · answered by Grown Lady 3 · 0 0

tell your friend that you understand the situation she is finding herself in, that no matter what she decides to do because of what happened, you will be there to support her morally, and in any other way you can. after saying that tell her that if she wants to talk you are a great listener, but you will point out any pros's and cons concerning what she decides to do, just because you know the stress she is under and want her to be aware of anything that might happen

2006-11-02 13:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by redsyoungstud 3 · 0 0

All you can do is support her. Invite her to stay with you if she needs it. Spend time with her so that she knows that if she decides to leave him, she has friends. I would tell her she will have to make the major decisions on her own; you do not want that responsibility. Just make sure you tell her that you will support whatever decision she makes.

2006-11-02 13:41:23 · answer #6 · answered by Bill 3 · 0 0

If she loves him enough she will eventually forgive him, especially if kids are involved. Therefore be careful what comments you may make about her husband. It may come back to hurt your friendship with her. A good listener is what she needs and support. The best revenge is living well.

2006-11-02 13:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by kam_1261 6 · 0 1

Tell your friend to leave her husband. Go and visit Pedro at South of the Border in South Carolina.

2006-11-02 13:38:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

u should help her out especially she needs you the most, obviously u may feel like it's none of ur business to get involved between husband and wife, but she really needs ur support now

2006-11-02 13:39:04 · answer #9 · answered by DaRkAnGeL 4 · 1 0

It's very hard to tell her to leave him but it would be the best for her. She has a life ahead of, why stick to a man who cheated on her?

2006-11-02 13:42:11 · answer #10 · answered by aoilondon 1 · 0 0

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