We have been sleeping apart for the last two nights.
I'm ready to make up.
2006-11-02 05:00:07 · 16 answers · asked by MISSY 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Who was to blame for the sleeping apart. She said romantic, that is not sexual in nature.
Break the routine, don't always assume that romance is sex.
Call him at work right now and tell him you love him, just because you do. Go out and get some candles and cook him a nice meal.
My personal fav:) Take a table outside, set it all up with the candles, real Dinner for two stuff. Make a CD of slow dance music. When he gets home, Meet him at the door in the best/hottest (Not Sexual) dress you have. Give him a kiss and big hug. Tell him you missed him. Lead him outside to the candle lit table for a romantic sit down meal for two. Ohhh, but there is only one plate that you must share :) Take turns eating and feeding each other. (hot wings not good here)
Once dinner is done. Leave the table as it is, stand hit the music and ask him to dance (Must be at least 2 songs & no stairway to heaven :)
You have set the mood for the night, just play the rest out as it goes. Sex should not be the goal but is a benefit of everything else.
If sex is in the picture then. This is your chance :) use it. Put a # on the night stand (Fake number works) Tell him is the number for the ambulance cause he is going to need it. Put your imagination to work, you know what hubby likes/wants.
Hope that helps
2006-11-02 05:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by SRC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's something special you can do on the cheap.
Before he gets home, mix up a body scrub (two parts sugar to one part olive oil/coconut oil, a squeeze of honey and lemon juice, perfume if you'd like, lavender and pumpkin spice are rated highly by men as sensual, soothing smells) and tell him you're gonna give him a full body scrub.
Don't tell anyone that you're giving him the full spa treatment, he might be embarrassed. But it's really very relaxing and sensual. Have him stand in the tub and rub the scrub from head to toe (not on the sensitive areas, it can be too scratchy for him, this also works well for delayed gratification).
Then, wash him off, draw a hot bath, and take a box of powdered milk. Put a few cups in the tub and voila! A luxurious milk bath for a FRACTION of the price. Have him lay back and relax, and maybe even join him.
Most men won't admit to it, but deep down they really enjoy being pampered just like we do. He'll be so pleased and appreciative, he'll pay you back plenty. You won't be sleeping apart tonight!
Good luck honey.
2006-11-02 05:07:15 · answer #2 · answered by feistycharley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the TV off turn on some romantic music , real low and talk for a while .
Have a light dinner and take a bath together . The rest is up to you .
2006-11-02 05:07:05 · answer #3 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress up in a skimpy outfit fill up the tub with bubbles and warm water buy some roses and candles give him a nice back rub and kiss him let him know hes the only man you love and that u never want to sleep apart like that again! then have wild sex
2006-11-02 05:03:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well talk to him about why you guys were sleeping apart the last two nights and or have dinner and wear something that could rock world and just be open to him give him hints and don't try to start anargument...
2006-11-02 05:04:12 · answer #5 · answered by alyssa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can start by going to dinner then coming home and watching a movie you both would enjoy then go make sweet love.
2006-11-02 05:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and buy a discount Halloween coustume, thier Uber cheap atm. I prefer school, but you'd might know his taste better.
2006-11-02 05:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by ~MB~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is warm enough. Take a blanket outside with some strawberries and chocolate............Look into each others eyes and make love under the stars.
2006-11-02 05:02:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him a candle light dinner for 2, make his favorite dish, wear something sexy, go buy some flowers for the table, nothing big, just a small bouquet for a small vase. and see where it goes from there!
good luck, and i hope you work things out.
2006-11-02 05:07:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice dinner and some sexy evening garments should do the trick.
2006-11-02 05:02:18 · answer #10 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋