If you're born gay, then you're gay, what is this "experimenting" about, to find out wether someone like to be gay or not, if that's the case, then you are not born gay, you choose to be gay.
2006-11-02 04:50:15 · 21 answers · asked by Abused Tampon 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
still asking this question?? there is NO SUCH thing as being "born gay"...and no concrete scientific proof, either. just another lie and excuse people like to use to explain why they do what they want to do! people do experiment with same sex, and get hooked. known people who've told me this, and now they're "full blown" homosexuals.
2006-11-02 04:52:22 · answer #1 · answered by incognitas8 4 · 3⤊ 7⤋
Very few people are truly exclusively straight or exclusively gay. Most people exist somewhere in the middle of the spectrum of orientation, although most people are also afraid to admit this because of all the pressures to fit into mainstream society.
When someone claims to be "experimenting" it just means that they have the strength to stand up against the mainstream and go out and discover where on that wonderful spectrum they most feel comfortable.
People are born people... give them the space and freedom to go out and discover.
-Jess
2006-11-02 12:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by jessbussert 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That isn't very logical thinking. You mean to tell me you can't imagine having innate feelings that you decide to actually ACT ON to see if they truly are what you think they are? Amazing. I don't know if other people are just hopelessly simple and uncomplicated or what. Furthermore not everyone's sexuality is as concrete and defined as mine or possibly yours is. Some people have urges that, when acted upon, don't live up to expectations and they would rather just fantasize about. This cookie cutter approach to the human psyche is the refuge of the simplistic.
And why does any non-gay person care at all if being gay is a choice or innate? (the science is in, it's innate). Irrelevant. Choice or nature, we're here and we're not going anywhere.
2006-11-02 04:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
because the is no proof in why some people are Gay, many factors, some it's genetics, some it culture, some because of experiences as a child, and so on, theres no one reason that can explain why someone is Gay. Every Gay person is different, but I believe the majority is Gay because of Genetics.
2006-11-02 06:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by TRACER 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i can not clarify how i became born gay yet i will assist you be responsive to the way i be responsive to i became born that way. Ever when you consider that i became slightly boy something felt "diverse" approximately me from different adult adult males. i became flamboyant, I beloved skipping, I secretly had to play with dolls yet repressed this, I on no account had an interest in activities and that i became slightly girly at circumstances. as quickly as I hit my pre-childrens, my guy acquaintances have been all noticing women. I pretended to (questioning in my head that i became in easy terms a prior due bloomer). ultimately i began out noticing my attraction to adult adult males and that i denied it for years, having been raised in an unaccepting environment in a Catholic, Republican city. After years of feeling uncomfortable in my own epidermis, i eventually embraced a factor of myself i attempted so confusing to do away with. I even experimented with women. No interest. i can not see how i became born "immediately" and "grew to become gay." It merely does no longer take place that way. i became consistently this way.
2016-12-09 01:21:16 · answer #5 · answered by mckinzie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all people know that their gay. So, they experiement. For some, I also think its about bi-sexuality. Your into the opposite sex, but then you find yourself attracted to someone of the same sex. Or you simply wonder what it would be like. So you experiment. Just because you experiment doesn't make you gay.
2006-11-02 04:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 1⤋
I believe some some people (men and women) are born being either more feminine or masculine then their sex is suppose to be. I also believe that we are all born with the ability to have sex with both male and female. Some people choose to experiment with that ability. Those people are considered bi-sexual. During the course of experimenting with bi-sexuality, if a man or women decides that they prefer the same sex, then they choose to become or be gay.
2006-11-02 04:55:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
No...you can still experiment without being gay like u can kiss a girl and then marry a guy a year later dosent make u gay
2006-11-02 04:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by ♥I know these things♥ 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Hey ! I NEVER had to experiment! I knew the first time I kissed a girl that it was the right thing to do! I was born gay..why is it your sexuality isn't "chosen" but mine is? Why the double standards? I didn't choose my skin color either...Do people choose to be born Scandinavian? Black? Chinese? Why do you care who I love?
2006-11-02 05:01:13 · answer #9 · answered by auntgnu62 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
People can be confused about thier sexuality and can experiment to see where they fall with in the sexual spectrum.
I am bisexual and some times people get confused because they are attracted to both. and becoem convinced thay have to be either homosexual or straight. Most monosexuals are against bisexuals and say we are all confused basically because they see the confusion of a few and judge the whole of us that way.
2006-11-02 04:57:15 · answer #10 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Nobody knows if its genetic or not. In my opinion its a behavioural thing, therefore chosen.
2006-11-02 17:45:22 · answer #11 · answered by georgeewert 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋