"After all the time we have been knowing each other, what are your feelings towards me?" His answer was: "I love you." But then i asked him: "why do you love me?" He would never answer. So i begged him everyday to tell me why he said that. But he will never tell, until finally he told me: "Just forget that i said that so you would chill out." then come to find out he ends up telling me down the line that because me and him are long distance, there is no way a relationship could happen. But he told me that he loved me! What do you think about the situation?
2006-11-02 04:36:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
first you must remember that there are many kinds of love, second if you were hoping it was the kind of love that could bring you two together you may have a lot of damage control to do after your constant begging (your own words) remember Patience is truly a virtue.
long distance relationships are tricky because the lack of contact breeds and multiplies many emotions that don't accompany traditional relationships due to mystery anticipation and many other factors my advice to all who are considering LD relationships is to truly evaluate the reality of what would be invovled in eventually closing the gap because one requirement for success is that the gap must eventually be closed one way or another
2006-11-02 04:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by whizbang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time, continue to be his friend. A long distance relationship is very hard but if you can prove that you are still there for him and that it won't be as hard, maybe he will change his mind. Don't push him becuase guys don't like that, but let him know you do care about him and you still want to be friends, and then just wait it out, see what he does
2006-11-02 04:40:12 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpeaberry42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all what kind of love is it? friendship love or love love? and you should never harrass a guy to tell you something... it just annoys them and makes them regret saying it.
and he may not want a long distance relationship with any one no matter how much he cares for someone... and that is exactly what he said to you.... no relationship because of the distance... if you like this guy get closer.
2006-11-02 04:39:56 · answer #3 · answered by becca_2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly in case you adult men do no longer generally "draw close out" then do this and see what occurs. yet once you adult men do "draw close out" now and lower back, i do no longer think of it is going to do numerous something. If it relatively is the latter, I in basic terms think of you need to tell her. in basic terms circulate up at once and ask her on a date or in basic terms say you like her and if she likes you lower back. The circulate to intense college, surprisingly different ones, will in all probability deliver down the friendship you 2 could have so as which you would be able to besides in basic terms say it. and you're nonetheless youthful, you have many extra years if it would not artwork. think of effective and desire each little thing works out! Cheers!
2016-11-26 23:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your title says it. close friend... Don't try and read anything into his words.. A friend can love as well as a gf or bf... He cares about you and enjoys the friendship you have.... Men do not want to say mushy things or have to explain their feelings, it is not their nature. Leave it be, he is letting you know you are okay in his books, that's all....
2006-11-02 04:43:20 · answer #5 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can love someone and not be in love with them. Just because you are not together doesn't mean you can't love them...
2006-11-02 04:39:16 · answer #6 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM ALONE. HE'S PLAYING MIND GAMES.
2006-11-02 04:45:38 · answer #7 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you nagged him to death
2006-11-02 04:39:40 · answer #8 · answered by szfr8l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋