wat things do indian guys expect from their wifes?

Question

wat things should one kept in mind when she is newly married to win the confidence of her man?

Answer 1

good looking
understanding
good cook
intelligent
working
creative
loving nature
compromising
accept things easily
respect his other relations like parents, siblings, Friends
obeying
don't have habit of asking the reason
always yes & never no

Answer 2

Ofcourse, they desire and expect sex. But their desires and expectations are different from that of their western counterparts. Before I go ahead, let me state that by Indian girls I mean an average middle class Indian girl, not the posh-nosh or the lower class. There could be an average Indian girl who could be exception to what I state. The average Indian girl will not easily slip into bed with her lover even she desires sex, mainly due to social or cultural portrayal of sex. Although, India is the land of Kama sutra, the people back then are different from the people today. Quite a lot of girls are not ready for oral sex or extended foreplay or some variety in bed. Many aren't vocal as much as their men would like them to be. PDA is something quite a lot of girls are shy to indulge in. Very few actually show the intensity that their lovers would like to see in them. Having said that, I am not writing off Indian girls. There definitely some who are exception to what I said. This is largely about the lot.

Answer 3

Indian guys.

Each one is an individual, they come with their own temperament, likes and dislike, if you want your marriage to secede you can only find out over a period of time, there should be equal give and take, on both part other wise there is nothing but misery.

If you are not married yet, find out first, but only when you are married and you are really in close contact, the real person emergies.

Answer 4

Men are all the same no matter wherever they are born pls. They always want women to be good listeners, Excellent Chef, Good House keeper, Also be a good dumbo, Should not be very expressive, Also a very god child carer, Good assistant, Good Manager in all the household work, Be modern whenever they want u to. Be Social and not too social too. Finally you will find yourself lost in this mess. By the time you'll be 40,45. Your life is done latter sit in the corner and think what have you done for yourself????????????????????????. Don't get confused. Accept life as it comes to you mam.

Answer 5

guys, i must say i'm very disappointed by the answers given.

your answers all show a biased and prejudiced perspective. who said the Indian man is bad? society made him that way.

my parents both grew up in villages, but are now retired doctors. my dad would wash the dishes and take care us kids too... he truly believed in equality at home, and our folks brought us up the same way.

he was very adamant that my mom should learn to drive and that financial responsibility was the entire family's responsibility. we shared everything... and my dad never once ill-treated my mom.

please don't go by stereotypes. i know american men who treat their women even worse than Indian man would.

to answer the question, it's important for you to first talk with your fiance so you know what his expectations are, and what his dreams are... promise yourselves that you'll both share each others dreams and that you'll make your marriage work.

that's the first step to a lasting relationship...

best of luck!

enjoy!

Answer 6

Should not point out his mistakes, keep him happy, respect his friends, relatives and parents, never complaint about them. Most of them feel that now that they are married wife will do all the work for them. Try to know all their expectations and dont disappoint, slowly they will get adjusted and know the reality.. till them let them fly in sky.. :)

Answer 7

Educated, Good food, Peace of Mind, Children. Someone who could be a shoulder in both good and bad times

Answer 8

By "Indian", I assume you are not referring to Native Americans.

I know a woman who has been married to two Indian men. The first one hit her on a few occasions. The second (and still current) one hit her in the nose with a phone, and around last Christmas came at her with a knife. Yet, she stays. He also treats her like he is her father.

I'm not sure if this is representative of all Indian men, but that's at least an example.

Interesting too, because there are plenty of American guys (such as myself) who would never dream of raising a hand to a woman, and want them to be independent, yet we remain alone. Must be the money.

Answer 9

confidence of winning everybody in the family.being perfect everywhere,in kitchen,in home and other places.winning husband at home or in bed, appear beautiful at all times yet be ready to do anything.list is unending but there should be something extra for success.

Answer 10

Indian husband wants wife to be a good cook, devoted mother, good house keeper, nice friend, and part of the bread earner. Make her husband feel that he is the boss.